i love her but she is so possessive....i decided to get lost and moved to another state w/o her knowledge and i changed my cel#....she still emails me begging but i dont reply...part of me says to continue living w/o her....but part of me says to go back...
2006-11-22 15:21:01 · 23 answers · asked by Random Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you went as far as moving to another state there must have been a real problem. Girlfriends are not worth all this. Don't spend anymore time on a lost cause. However, you do owe her the courtesy of a one time e-mail saying that you are still alive and decided to move on without her and for her to stop sending any more correspondence.
2006-11-22 15:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think about what has happened. Obviously this girl drives your crazy. You moved to another whole state just to get away from her and you changed your cell number. If that isn't clear than i don't know what is. You made changes to get rid of her don't back track. You did things for a reason. I think that you should follow your gut no matter what. Maybe write her and email but def don't go crawling back to her, she obviously didn't things you couldn't stand so remember you moved for a reason and you changed your number for a reason and that is you crazy ex girlfriend!
2006-11-22 23:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason you left. It is easy to just remember that warm body that was helping heat your bed and all that, but there must have been a LOT of reasons to leave if you just left the state like that. Talk to her in email if you must talk, but get out and see some new people. Volunteer and get back to yourself. Once you figure out how you can be complete on your own, you can find someone that can prove you wrong.
2006-11-22 23:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Just another 2D character online 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went out of your way to disappear...she doesn't have a choict but to get over you. Why don't you change your email address too?! Sure it feels great to the ego that she is still looking for you. Something made you make a DRASTIC change so why would you go back to her?
2006-11-22 23:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was wrong. You should have talk to her like an adult and ended the relationship, then moved. You should call her and explain the situation and what you want to happen from then and on out. Your heart will tell you if you should be with her or not.
2006-11-22 23:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Danyele P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your email addy. If you make those drastic moves to get away from her it will all have been in vain if you reunite. Find a nice girl that you don't have to run from like that. That's not good at all.
2006-11-22 23:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by veronski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should at least tell her you're ok! has it occured to you that what you have done is gutless and harsh in any situation, she may be possessive but doing this isn't going to make her any better if anything it'll just make her more insecure... my advise to you is to let her know the situation and not leave her hanging; but going back would not healthy for either of you, especially her!
2006-11-22 23:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by brown eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you leave her in the first place? If you want to put up with that again, go back. Otherwise, change your email. Or block her addresses.
2006-11-22 23:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Curious George 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be a jerk. explain to her how you feel, tell her you're ok. She probably thinks something majorly bad happened to you and there is no excuse for putting anyone through that. Running away from someone solves nothing, its the wimps way out.
2006-11-22 23:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by winddreamer88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow she must be pretty bad to move to another state just to get away...sounds like drastic measures to me why don't you stay where you are unless you are wanting to move and then tell her to leave you alone? You know kinda like BE A MAN!
2006-11-22 23:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋