2006-11-22 15:19:23 · 13 answers · asked by I-C-U 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For some reason a lot of ladies like to mess around with bad boys, wreck their 20's and 30's and then decide to date the nice guys they blew off as losers and geeks for the past 10-15 years. It is just the way it works out... Now not all women do this but too many do. A lot of times when you are young you are intimidated by faith because often if you follow the teachings you are saying no to things that young people struggle with saying no to. Life is the best teacher and usually women end up back right where they should have been all along... of course men take this same journey as well.
2006-11-22 15:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because you are looking for women in the wrong place.
Look for the women who spend their time in the presence of God, not the clubhouse of Church, and you will find thousands of women all praying that God leads a man to them who will honor their hearts.
If you are this kind of man, then come to my church. There are lots of women there, beautiful and willing to wait for the right man.
It could also be that God isn't bringing you Godly women right now, because he has some polishing up to do on you. Or he is polishing Her up...Better to make a good impression the first time...
God has your back, tell Him you want to know your wife (because there is one out there that He has picked for you) and be patient.
In the meantime, try writing to your wife NOW, your thoughts, feelings and prayers for her in a journal. When you do finally meet face to face, it will be a wonderful gift for her on your wedding day.
2006-11-22 23:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by tankgirl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It might be because they don't want to attend religious services & would feel pressured to go with their husband.
Note: A pagan or heathen type is someone who hasn't been baptized and/or doesn't believe in God. It might be the woman doesn't want to lead a good Christian life herself. It's much easier to be bad and being good is hard.
2006-11-22 23:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because the SEX is better and more and sooner. Because men of "god" are generally closeting their desires. Because pagan boys are hotter. Because sunday is a great to to mess around. Because a million reasons but mostly because not everyone's a religious snob like you.
2006-11-23 11:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by bitoffriedgold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest 'pegan/heathen' types, as you put it, are often less creepy than 'men of God'.
2006-11-22 23:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by sahariah 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you are asking the wrong women out? If it bothers you than you need to be around those people who have the same faith as you. Simple, no?
2006-11-22 23:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex appeal. Same reason most men like a little cleavage rather than a starched white apron.
2006-11-22 23:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the bad boy type has an air of adventure and most people are bored with life
2006-11-22 23:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I want a man of God for my future husband!!
Stay strong in your faith and may God bless you greatly! :)
2006-11-22 23:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men of God have a reputation with the little boys. That's probably a turn-off.
2006-11-22 23:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋