me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 monts and i said i love you for the first time and he freaked and walked kinda ran away
2006-11-22 15:18:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Clear indication that the feeling isnt mutual. It doesnt mean 'Guys' do that. I didnt!
Cheers
2006-11-22 15:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by swifthorse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a sign that the feelings may not be mutual. You might want to take time to learn more about him and or the next guy who comes around. Usually it depends on the depth of the relationship that determine if the guy is okay with the love word. You can never tell. Next time let the guy lead the way, that way you are sure that he loves you and you won't be left with the feeling that you did something wrong. Its his loss though because if you two were already in a relationship then he should have responded differently. Maybe his idea of commitment is not the same as yours. How long were you guys friends before the dating relationship started? Examine how well you knew him before dating him.
2006-11-22 15:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by shuntae28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, darlin - 'I love you = responsibility' It opens up responsibility to love back, possibly go further into the relationship, maybe make commitments. Guys suck. Today's young people as a whole suck. Nobody wants to take any responsibility for anything! That's why there are so many abortions, so few long lasting marriages, and so much going from one relationship to the next. Get used to it! I do not foresee young people getting any better about this. Instant gratification of wants is what the future holds in store for you younger folks. God help the future of this country, and the world as a whole!
2006-11-22 15:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is what society teaches men, we are taught to RUN if you say it too soon. Plus it takes us double time to fall for you as much as you love us. Men get connected physical first while women get connected emotionally. So you have to give him time, if he comes back work with him. You are a woman and that means most of the time you are more mature so you must be the teacher and work with him. Show him the way you want to go but if he does not want that LET HIM FLY LITTLE BIRD. You will be better off in the long run
2006-11-22 15:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by ronnell1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because "love" is a four-letter word? If a guy is IN love, he won't freak out. And just because another girl is into a guy doesn't make her a whore. She's just not YOU, so the jealousy is bizarre. If she's your "FRIEND," then the two of you have issues. Otherwise, you were some other ex's new "whore" when you got with him the first time.
2016-03-29 06:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a very strong word and should not be used unless you are sure. when the word love is used it usually means long-term relationship. maybe hes not ready. or he is just shocked that you used the word period I'm not sure that love should be used after 2 months but if that is how you feel sit down with him and explain to him how you meant to be and see what he says. Good Luck!!
2006-11-22 15:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by mack smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wasn't quite expecting that from you and just needs a little bit of time to think about the idea of taking your relationship a step further. I love you means a lot, sometimes it just takes a while even if he does feel the same way about you.
2006-11-22 15:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by winddreamer88 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only time guys freak when a girl says " I love you" is when the guy doesn't feel the same for the girl. When the guy also loves the girl, he replies "I love you to".
2006-11-22 15:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by grillochilango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah.. it happens... maybe his shock or not really ready for saying those three words .. well you did your job now is his turn to either accept it or not.. for me If I say that to my boyfriend which I already did, he smile and gives me a huge hug afterwards.. why not have a chat to your boyfriend about something else to make him not think to much about this three words.
2006-11-22 15:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that bassically it's their nature; a boy / man or a guy is a chaser.. a hunter, so let them chase & hunt you (to win) your heart.
2006-11-22 15:32:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋