she's used to be shy, but not no more, but now she's comfortable with taking advantage, asking for things and not giving when i ask. i've droped all my girls for her, so what should i do.
2006-11-22 15:12:06 · 17 answers · asked by junior 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her--tell her how you feel and make sure she tells you how she feels about every question you may have... i was once like that--it could be high expectations or full of confused thoughts.
happy to say that i changed for the better, though it took me more than a year to figure out life. if you have patience, you'll stick with her through thick and thin--my bf did, and i'm the happiest girl alive! :) and i'm learning to give back too, because he's such a good example for me.
2006-11-22 15:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can you love someone who doesn't loves you back? Do unto others as you would have them do unto you! If you are treating her so well, she should do the same for you. This does not mean sex!
Apparently you were a player and she is now playing you! It doesn't feel so good does it. Take the time and reflect on what you liked about her specifically. Make a list and add what you liked about the other girls to it. This is the girl you are looking for!
Or maybe you should do this for yourself!
2006-11-22 23:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JR. Take off the rose colored glasses. If she really loved you, she could not find it in her heart to take anything from you, but help you build something special for the both of you. Love does not come once a week, and twice on Saturday. Love is a never ending feeling. This is what you should do: Ask her out and tell you to are going dutch and see if she goes for that. Or ask her out and somehow run out of cash and ask her to chip in. She answer to any one of the questions will tell you what you need to know. Good Luck.
2006-11-22 23:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to examine what your definition of love is and determine in your heart if you feel loved. Sometimes people can be selfish and if you are the giver in the relationship and shes the taker,confront her and tell her how you feel and that you want her to do things that make you feel loved. Give her a chance to be giving. Its okay to love someone but when its someone who isn't able to show you love then you make a hug sacrifice beacause you deny your happiness in the process. We usually know when someone loves us like our parents and close friends but why do we let our mates off the hook? Think of a time when you felt loved by a mate and determine if she makes you feel the same. Let this little indication guide your decision on how to proceed in the future.
2006-11-22 23:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by shuntae28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yo self another lady. Listen to Beyonces song and send her azz to the left. Yeah it was made from a female but the door swings both ways in a relationship. Dont stay with anyone u r not happy wit. U may love her but keep in mind that there r females everywhere so dont get hung up on her when the female u should have is waitin on u....
2006-11-22 23:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry dude, i know its hard the same thing happened to me earlier on this year, but you just got to get rid of her. Even though you do love her, she just doesn't feel the same about you. And more than that, she is taking advantage of the fact you love to get stuff out of you. Somebody like that deep down can't have that great of a personality anyway. Trust tell her either stop or its over.
2006-11-22 23:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Adam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu don't really know that she loves you since maybe just maybe she might just be using you by taking advantage of you. But my best guess would be talk to her.
2006-11-22 23:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by dm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other then you should be able to talk about anything and work it out. You have to have respect in a relationship.
2006-11-22 23:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by chaser_downer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving to her. If she changes then she is in love with the material aspects and not you.
2006-11-22 23:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by rnellwoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just broke up w/ 1 of those.Loved like no other-she was a taker. I stopped givin and she broke my heart
2006-11-22 23:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by tommy_8473 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋