Ok so me and my boyfriend of 2 years just broke up last week. He used me for all my money and thats why we broke up. But anway, what I don't understand is that he already has a girlfriend and he is living with her. I know he was living with his uncle last week so I know he just moved in. I just don't get it, my ex boyfriend has 2 kids by 2 different moms, he does not have a car or a job. He doesn't have any money. Now I am a girl with no kids, a job, a car, and responsible and I don't have anyone. I just don't get it. He also had the nerve the call me today from the new girlfriends phone and asked me for aunt's phone and after I gave it to him, he hung up on me. Somebody please tell me the world hasn't turned upside down.
2006-11-22 15:10:56 · 8 answers · asked by KAB128 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be thankful that you didn't come out of this relationship any worse than you have. Guys like this only are looking for a free ride. Someone who will provide for them...cars, money, etc........
He probably saw that you were a little more responsible, and couldn't be easily taken advantage of, (ie: you still have your car, job, and didn't have any children by this jerk) so he went on to find someone else who would "take care of all his needs" He not only wants the proverbial cake, but he wants someone to bake it from scratch, frost it with home-made frosting, and feed it to him with one hand, while massaging his crappy ego with the other hand. Pick yourself up, dush off, and hold your head high!! You are the winner here!!! :)
p.s. I bet you he has a HUMONGUS spending habit, huh?? Placed you in a position that you were obligated to make the payments for him, in order to make the household work?? I may be wrong, but this fits the scenario you painted here. Find someone who accents who you are, and seeks to preserve your dignity, and NOT destroy YOU!!
2006-11-22 15:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for you. ive been with my bf for 2 years also and we were having alot of problems a few weeks ago =( thats mean of him to use you for money. but you said he didnt have a job so why did you keep giving him money when he was jobless? if i were you i would have said "im not going to give you money unless you get a decent job" he sound sliek a gold digger to me and you;re better off wihtout him! someone will come along and treat you the way you deserve.! his new gf will probably get sick of his gold digging games and throw him out! lol, (lets just hope that happens ;-) ) be strong! hang in there the right guy will come along someday!
2006-11-22 15:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, life just works that way. I hate to say it, but there are tons of people out there who are like that...perhaps someday they will understand and learn the heartache they give others, and perhaps not. Just move on and find someone who's worth you!
2006-11-22 15:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by The Muppet Fairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world hasn't turned upside down... Hang in there, you'll find a man who treats you better...
2006-11-22 15:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fret about him , u are more on ur feet than he is one shap turn and his life goes down the tubes. its okay cheer up hes gone and u can start saving up ur money for ur self instead of for him. =]
2006-11-22 15:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by ~*nellie*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, guys are like that. It is ok. Find a better guy, you deserve better.
2006-11-22 15:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by Grumpy chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he obviosly has commiment issues - you should have seen that going in.
2006-11-22 15:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Go B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get discouraged by this jerk. you will find a guy who appreciates you and loves you.
2006-11-22 15:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋