2006-11-22 15:08:35 · 19 answers · asked by Rebecca N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't know,,,,,you are not ready. No, you shouldn't do it!!!
2006-11-22 15:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r not ready dont do it. Wait as long as u can. Trust me. Im 22 now but I let mine go to a Ho when I was 16 and I regret it like hell. Make sure u r ready before u get down wit the dirrty.
2006-11-22 23:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Just Ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't. My friend-well, more than acquaintance but less than a friend-had sex with her boyfriend. I told her that it was bad. But she said bad was fun. And I said, it's not gonna be fun when you get pregnant. And I was only trying to protect her but I didn't want her to think I was getting into her business. No one can tell you what to do. Just because you've been with your boyfriend for a long time, doesn't make it right to sleep with him. Don't let anyone pressure you into something you don't want to do. I've known girls my age (15) that have kids that are 1 year old already. Those are the kind of girls that think they are invinsible and that nothing will happen to them. But it's better to wait till marriage. You're skipping one big step if you have sex with him.
2006-11-22 23:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I'm telling you that you should be comfortable with the idea. It's okay to be nervous but if you're not sure you want to sleep with this guy, you're not ready. If he insists and starts to get pissed that you don't want to do it, then you need to rethink him or yourself. Is he just after a lay (doesn't sound like it if you've been together for while)? Are you sure you like/love him? If you're sure you like/love him and he's not just chasing tail, then ask yourself why you're scared.
Is it practical (i.e. are you afraid it will hurt? Are you self-conscious about your body?)? Or is it something else (i.e. do you not trust him? Do you feel he's not the one you want to sleep with?)?
2006-11-22 23:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by KenLG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question. you said "your scared too" then dont do it! !! i was worried abotu it too. ive been with my bf for 2 years and i didnt wait to "do it" till over a year and a half! if he loves you and respects you then he shoudl wait for you and wait till you feel comfortable! dont let im opressure you into anything you will only regret it in the long run!. just be patient with yourself. you will get over it one day and just make sure your on birth control and u use a condom no matter what! . it doesnt matter if youve been together a long time. if you dont feel comfortable about it then dont do it simple as that! .
2006-11-22 23:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are scared is letting you know that you are not ready for "it"
Wait until your mature and in a relationship that will last for life.
2006-11-22 23:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know, then most likely you aren't ready. Sex isn't everything. If you are indeed emotionally ready, then just give it time. Let it happen naturally, in its own time.
2006-11-23 00:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by bndgrl09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't think you should do it till you are more comfortable with the idea of having it. So just wait awhile if he loves you he will understand!
2006-11-22 23:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by DJ thunderdust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your time and think about it, being scared its normal but once it happens everything is fine,take care
2006-11-22 23:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by ashnat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ready for the changes doing that brings I say go for it.
2006-11-22 23:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by Styliztik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready then don't do it. He shouldn't be forcing you to do it if you dont want to. Tell him no. If he doesn't want to be your boyfriend anymore then he just wanted sex....you don't need that.
2006-11-22 23:12:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋