I'm an incredibly attractive, well groomed, 5'9" blonde with a perfect body and a great personality, I'm confident and creative and everyone thinks I'm the nicest person ever. And you know how many times I have been asked out? Once. I'm a junior, so it's not like I'm in middle school, but still. So people always say "Oh, guys are too shy to ask out pretty girls" But really, lots of girls and guys far less pretty than I are asked out all the time, and I'm really not a bad person... so do I really have to ask guys out myself? No offense, but it always sounds kind of pathetic to me when a girl asks out a guy.
2006-11-22 15:05:15 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with Helper. If you truly are really nice, let EVERYONE see it, not just the crowd you hang out with. You could also be very intimidating. If your attitude is like that about girls asking out guys, then you most likely view every situation like that as pathetic. There is nothing wrong with being old-fashioned, but sometimes you have to go after what you want, don't wait for it to come to you. Perhaps you just weren't meant to be with tons of people in high school. Slow down and enjoy life now, don't try to experience everything all at once.
2006-11-22 16:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by bndgrl09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sixteen and curiously i'm attractive and that different females like me however the situation with me as that I hate to circulate and flirt with different females while there are different individuals around because of the fact they positioned me off and upload on stress. i'm taking off to earnings to grant much less of a **** yet its nevertheless problematical. i'm at a guy college now so if i substitute to a mixed intercourse college lower back I reckon i could circulate in the present day as much as any female who gave me a sprint that they enjoyed me. If i substitute into you i could attempt to talk to him at the same time as he's by utilising himself and communicate in a fashion that's mushy and then tell him you extremely like and which you may choose for to hold out with him.
2016-11-26 02:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is but if u really like him then ask him out. Yes guys are shy and its all about growing up but some guys take longer then others. how i know is because im one of them. good luck
2006-11-22 15:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe no one asks you out because you are so arrogant. I know i wouldnt talk to some of the rude cheerleaders at our school because they act that way. Try and tone down yourself. When talking with guys make it more about them than about you. And talk less ... I bet that all will work.
2006-11-22 15:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Helper123 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you should make it like ask him out for a coffee or somethin that will make the guy who r dating out a littel less tense. or outdoor like camping or water jetski. after that then you ask him our for dinner. make it casual. i think its sweet that a gal ask a guy out which she is attracted to .
man alway think that beautiful gals always had bf that makes them don dare ask them out or talk to them. its ok , since you came, i believe god had done it again.
2006-11-22 15:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is pathetic if he really likes u then he should b able to get off his butt, get up the courage and ask u if ur hot and nice then ur worth it! good luck!
2006-11-22 15:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
absolutely not...i see attractive girls do it all the time...give it a shot^^
2006-11-22 15:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by mr E 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, u can do tat...
guy & gal is equal now...
go ahead
2006-11-22 15:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋