Should one simply move along when the situation seems to suggest that there will not be a relationship or should one follow ones heart and continue to wait and hope that there will be a chance for reconcilliation?
2006-11-22 14:57:03 · 21 answers · asked by blond raven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if she knows you are into her and she still chose somebody else, that person had something to offer her that she wanted, that you didn't have. That isn't necessarily a bad thing, like girls going for bad boys, I'm not suggesting you turn into a bad boy or anything.
I personally would suggest that you move on otherwise if you did snag the girl wouldn't she be more likely to leave you for another guy that had that one thing that she wanted that you don't?
Just let her go, maybe she'll change or you will and there will be an opportunity down the road. But don't try to change for a girl and don't ever try to change a girl. You'll find somebody who wants you for what you are and not what you could be.
You don't ever want to go into a relationship with a girl who thinks that you are second best to somebody else.
2006-11-22 15:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Martin H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, but acting and feeling foolish over love happens to us all. You do need to move on, but you may always feel something for her. I still have scars on my heart. And truthfully, I have carved up some other men just as well ...it happens. I wonder if anyones true love actually works out in the end. Or are we all just settling?
Get some Damien Rice and listen to him spill his guts - crank the volume really loud. Not the best advice, but it will help you vent some of the pain.
2006-11-22 15:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a fool. You cant just turn your feelings on and off willy nilly, but you can train them to do what you want over time. My advice is that you move on and find someone who will make you number 1 in their life. Even though you still have feelings for this woman, she is not the one for you otherwise she wouldnt have rejected you in the first place. You can find someone else to love if you let yourself, and even if there is a chance of reconciliation between you, how would you feel knowing that you were her second choice. No, I think its best you moved on. Good luck in your future.
2006-11-22 15:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by AussieHel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on dude, you can only bless or be friends. if you keep on waiting for his gal is called obbesion. you cannot 4get her and you want her so much that you will do anything that is uncool . move on , i m impress with man who had that kind of attitude. i m sure a man like that would love a gal with all of her heart. 'so a man is not a fool to continue to love a woman who has rejected him for another man' because he once love her with all her heart and he will keeep on loving her even she is with someone, i will bless her that she is live happily with all my heart. i will give her a call once a year on birthday or thankgiving to show caring from a far away friend, that's what i do.
2006-11-22 15:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No to all questions. Loving someone does not make one a fool. However, you should not wait and hope. You should move on with your life.
2006-11-22 15:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by babydoll 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say to the man, move on.
If she has fell in love with another man, and ended her current relationship, there is no point for a man to wait for her.
He should move on with his own life and find someone else.
2006-11-22 14:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you want your life to pass you by.
Life is too short for that. If it is meant to be than it will be. Until then, move along, you might be missing out on something great!
2006-11-22 14:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love and learn.
If she comes back great, but move on in the meantime. You can still love her and move on. She has.
:)
2006-11-22 14:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by Boodie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to move on...in the future things may change between you 2, but hanging around for her will only make her run away...best way to get her back is move on, and you may find someone that treats you better than she did
2006-11-22 15:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
once u give up and leave shell notice and want u back more than before its ur choice do u reeally think u want her forever? she did reject you. but leave her alone for a while and if she doesn't notice that ur gone and she starts missing you......don't bother you can do so much better<3
2006-11-22 15:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by ~*nellie*~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋