Is my girlfriend cheating on me?

Question

I love my girlfriend and I think she loves me. I think we are going to break up in about 4 months or so because she is moving away and does not really want me to go with her. I keep asking her about it and hope things will work out. Anyway she had a boyfriend in another area and she went back there for thanksgiving. Now when I talk to her she is distant, and almost seems like she could care less. I tell her I miss her she says get over it etc... I love her but everytime she goes away she acts really strange, sometimes I think when she goes back her and her ex sleep together. I dont know this for sure and I really hope not, but just the way she acts, and talks differantly to me. I want to ask her about some of this stuff and I am really hoping she is not doing it because we have unprotected sex. I just dont know what to do. I do hope that we end up staying together even after she has to leave I hope to go with her, but this just drives me crazy. How do you suggest I ask her?

I just added that we have unprotected sex because if she is cheating I dont want to. We do everything right, she is on birthcontrol.

Answer 1

Honey, You no in your heart what she is doing to you. I no it hurts and the whole thing sucks but we all been through it.It's right there in our face and we refuse to see it.If you keep after her she will tell you point blank that she doesn't love you any more and she has been seeing her ex for awhile now.Don 't let her do that to you,beat her to the punch.Tell her you don't care what she does because you have been seeing someone for over 6 months now and you love her.I no you won't take my advise. You don't no me but I am giving you good advise so please take it. I hope everything works out for you.If the pain gets to hard for you, don't think about tomorrow take it a minute at a time or a hour what ever it takes. Don't let this girl get the best of you.

Answer 2

First of all if you think she is cheating (and you obviously do) you should not be having unprotected sex. And I hate to say this I can tell you from a woman's point of view; she is sleeping and probably still in love with the other guy. And all I can tell you is to get tested for ALL STD's and that karma is a sure thing.

Answer 3

First of all, stop having unprotected sex. That's just not a good idea, considering how easily you could get an STD or get her pregnant.

The best thing you could do is talk to her about this. Tell her your concerns. Honesty is always the best policy in relationships. Let her know that it hurts you when you tell her you miss her and she says get over it. If she doesn't realize what she's doing is hurting you, then at least she'll know.

Answer 4

First things first: please don't tell us about your intercourse habits with your girlfriend! Have some decency man! Good God! Now seriously, some ways to tell if she is cheating on you is if she is very protective about your love life with other women, because she will start to feel awkward and guilty. Personally, she probably is just jealous of her ex-boyfriend's success without her in his life, even though she may not love him still. STUPID CAT LADY!!!! P.S. I LOVE LEMONADE

Answer 5

dump this chick she playing you like a sap if that was me and my girlfriend i will kick is tail up and down his house but if he dosen't know you two are going out then call him and tell hi the dellio and tell he s getting played like a sap but if you really want to find out take a guy friend to hold you back when you tyr to fight and your sister or friend that a girl to whip your girlfriend but ok drive up ther almost like spying follow her in a different car a car she dosen't know and stick right behind her but not to close you dig.

Answer 6

TELL HER HOW MUCH YOU NEED HER
but yea shes gonna brake your heart cheat on her before she does you

Answer 7

I feel sorry for you...but your being played...it will be tough but you gotta move on

Answer 8

just my opinion but i think she is