from our home town... I have spoken to him in a couple months. We never dated... but it was the strongest connection with a man that I ever had. However...during the time I was gone, I found out he had sex with my bestfriend (I'm not his girl so it shouldn't matter, but that hurt) and he's getting married to his now pregnant fiance'. I feel like there are so many things that I have yet to tell him. Should chalk it up as a loss and never contact him. Or find him and let him know how I feel even if he's going to get married? (Tidbit: The reason why it hurts... we talked about getting married, many times.)
2006-11-22 14:53:09 · 3 answers · asked by Gface15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is very hard. I'm in a similar situation, and I wish I could contact her, but can't. You could let him know how you feel, but you'd be risking the friendship. (since he's getting married) BUT...if you don't do anything, it will eat at you for years if you truly love him. It's a hard decision to make, but I feel that I made the wrong decision when I did nothing.
2006-11-23 17:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by oneworld09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really tough. But can u put urself n2 his fiance's position? That would really hurt you right?! You can tell him, but don't have him messing up his plans of marriage. Sorry, but I think that was ur loss.
2006-11-22 22:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by S4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly i think it would be hard for me to tell him, but it would be harder for me to live with the regret for the rest of my life and asking myself the question "what if" wouldn't you rather KNOW that live with that question for the REST OF YOUR LIFE? i say go for it, what have you got to lose? you don't have him now, and the worst is, you won't have him, but WHAT IF, i say go for it you need to know to be able to move on...good luck to u
2006-11-22 22:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kollege Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋