I cant seem to forget this jerk i learned to love. we used to be very close but we hardly talk anymore. He's done things that i think have been very cruel. he is so shallow. yet i cant find the heart to forget about him. i know he doesnt have the slight intrest in me even as a friend.. i saw him today and he seems to have been great without me.. not missing me at all. but he did try to make conversation with me and such. i really really miss him but i know that me trying to talk to him will not bring back anything. then there is this other guy thats really sweet and a real gentleman that i dont have a feel for but he treats me right and i can tell he really wants to get to know me. what should i do?
2006-11-22 14:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The one that loves you!. Definitely!. You don't love the other one, maybe u have an obsetion 'cause he reject you ... but you can be in love with a Jerk. Take the second one honey ...
2006-11-22 14:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What`s wrong with just getting to know the dude first? If he is such a nice guy, then you should go for it! Who says it always has to be love at first sight? If you think you are ready to just give it a shot, then do it. If you later on still don`t feel "it" then at least you tried
2006-11-22 14:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not as important as caring about a person which may sound like love but it's not the same. Try to find out if the person who doesn't love you cares alot about you. I found that caring is longer lasting than love. I was married to a man who loved me and I loved him, and we are divorced after years of marriage. Then I married a man whom I don't love, and who doesn't love me, but we care about each other very much. We are the best of friends and now going on 15 years of being married.
2006-11-22 15:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by HSB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i've been there and done that and let me tell you what i wish i did. forget about both of them and find someone who you have feelings for and also loves you. love is a tricky buisness, once you love someone if its real, you can't just stop loving them because of things they've done or said. real love is unconditional. your prolly always going to love that guy, but dont waste your time with a guy you dont have feelings for because in the end he's only going to get hurt or your going to be misrable for staying with him. please just stay away from both of them and find a new man.
2006-11-22 14:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly nether are good for you a relationship needs to be reciprocating, love on both sides if you choose the nice guy and you don't care for him you will just do to him what the last guy did to you.
2006-11-22 15:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by nirrad1975 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe one that loves YOU for who YOU are. Its a great thing!
2006-11-22 14:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
THE ONE THAT LOVES U
2006-11-22 14:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by dounut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋