I live with 9 people. Three of them I can stand. One I barly see. Also 4 I can't stand to be around. The four people that piss me off everyday. They always makes me want to kill myself, because I can't stand these people. Ones bi-polor and crazy. Well we both get angry alot. So we tend to fight A LOT. And her kids. 3 5 and 7 the 5 year old is out of control and Im going to kill him. And then Andie *that one I fight with* tells me to stop yelling at her kid right. well she dont take care of them. she like yells at them kids for even breathing. and she erg!!! I dont know what to do Im going to snap and like hurt myself and/or another person. What should I dooo ? :'(
2006-11-22 14:23:48 · 5 answers · asked by its_alyssalea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
bte ... Im 14
2006-11-22 14:38:49 · update #1
You need to go looking for another place to live quick. I could not imagine living with that many people. That many people you are bound to end up arguing with someone. Get on the computer and start looking for a place. People looking for roommates advertise all the time.
Good luck
2006-11-22 14:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by sandymisitano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how old you are but I am going to make an guess you are living "on your own" also if the lease is in your name kick these people out if not I would start looking for a place of your own NO roomates and definitly NO kids so you can live a peaceful life without worry about screaming at someone constantly. Also you need to seek immediate attention for the suicidal/homicidal thoughts before you end up sharing a jail cell with someone or worst a cemetary. Please do not delay in any of this. If you live with parents or something talk to someone you trust about these issues you are having there is always some kind of program that can get you out of the situation. I hope things get better and I hope this helps.
2006-11-22 22:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by mikeysbaby421 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you have to swallow your pride with a grain of salt, because you are living in someone elses house!!! However if you are unhappy in your living arangment and you have somewhere else you can go , i would suggest moving out!! Ii is not practical that you get your own place as you said you are only 14.... there are other options, if you are not happy, such as childrens services, etc.... but i will tell you now once they are in your life, they stick around for awhile!! I honestly wouldnt say its the best situation for the children to be in that situation either, not healthy for any one there actuallY.... This advice is coming from some one who hates almost everyone in her house too, but im moving out at the end of the month cause i can, im 24....
~CHEERS!!~
2006-11-22 22:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn alittle tollerance, understanding and boxing!
If the first two won't help the third might !
Try rolling with the punches alittle .... when your older you can leave it all behind and just not show up at the reunions........till then use this as a life skills learning lesson ..... learn how to get along.....yup it may suck now..... but it will get better later!
Smile.....
2006-11-22 22:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by John 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well mine is not that bad. but yeah me and my mom and sister fight every night and I just dont know what do about it. when ever you get this happening to you. Then go out and go for a walk and that is what I do. Just go for a walk and try to calm down and when I get back in the house. I just go to my room and try to block all of it. and if it gets bad again I leave but that is just me it seems to work
2006-11-22 22:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by beggin09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋