I've been with my partner for a year. He is very nice to me but doesn't take me out, never pays for anything, never compliments me, etc. Despite this, I consider myself lucky because I know he would not cheat on me and I trust him. He shows his love by giving me a lot of attention and is very nice to me. I give a lot more than I get, but remember, he is still very nice / attentive. On a scale from 1 to 10, I'd give him a 6.
A girl once told me how lucky I am. Would you consider me lucky?
2006-11-22 14:21:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How would you rate your partner and why?
2006-11-22 14:25:44 · update #1
Those are good qualities in a man but still he needs to take some responsibility by paying for stuff.Some guys just don't know what their supposed to do but your right about being lucky if he does all those other things
2006-11-22 14:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are happy then you are lucky, but I don't think you feel that way. It's good that you trust him and know he wouldn't cheat on you but if that's all you have then why are you there? There is more to a relationship than that and if he is not fulfilling all your needs, you need to talk. I'm in a relationship now, living with my boyfriend, been together for 8 months and let me tell you, I thank God for him everyday. He is sweet, funny, silly, and gentle. He treats me like a princess and tells me every day how beautiful I am and how much he loves me. I would rather be alone and make myself miserable than be with someone who makes me miserable; think about that. Do the good times outweigh the bad? If not, you have some thinking to do.
2006-11-22 14:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a relashionship like this trust me U CAN DO BETTER! he is just not a gentleman ur worth alot more i mean if he cant even pay for u is he out of a job or something? the attention is good i mean that is a plus but dont u want a guy that will take u out sometimes pay for a nice meal and introduce u to some friends every now and then?
2006-11-22 14:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My recent ex was very good to me- Dinner everyother night(he paid), Rings,earings,necklaces,and bracelets every week. There for me when I lost 9 family members in a month. Never pushed me more than what I wanted to go. Always had compliments, even when I thought I looked horrible. Never Cheated and forgave me for cheating. Let me sleep in his arms whenever I wanted. Never used me to make hisfriends jealous.
We broke up cuz we never re-found the love we had two yrs ago. Your are a little lucky. Tell him how you feel. He may not realize you feel this way.
I gave him A 10/10 and a sorry for breaking his heart.
2006-11-22 14:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-fiance would take me out, buy me presents, pay for everything, got me to live with him..etc etc, the whole deal. But I always felt so neglected because he was never affectionate or loving and never paid me the attention I needed. He would even tell me that he "loves me, but not the way he pictured true love". I guess nobody's relationship is perfect, but I would rather be in one like yours than in one like I used to be in.
best of luck!
2006-11-22 14:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have something... but obviously it needs improvement if he's only rating a 6 on your scale! You are lucky if you do in fact love him. Just talk... at least somehow let him know you feel something might be missing?
2006-11-22 14:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by sahariah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I CONSIDER YOU VERY LUCKY,I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 3 YEARS AND MY HUSBAND GOES OUT 1-3 TIMES A WEEK.... THIS WHOLE TIME I HAVE BEEN WITH HIM HE HAS MAYBE STAYED HOME MAYBE A TOTAL OF 2 MONTHS WE HAVE 4 CHILDREN AND IM A STAY AT HOME MOM WHILE HE IS OUT HAVING FUN BEING A SLUT IM SITTING AT HOME TAKING CARE OF THE KIDS I NEVER GET A BRAKE... MY HUSBAND SAYS TERRIBLE THINGS TO ME ...AND CONTROLS ALL THE MONEY ....HEY HES OUT RIGHT NOW MATTER OF FACT SO APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE HE WILL COME AROUND .....
2006-11-22 14:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by puffin25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't consider u lucky,because if he don't treat u like u treat him,my u need to find someone else to be with,because yal are not mint to be.And just because a guy is nice don't mend he doesn't love you maybe he just don't know how to show his emotion.
2006-11-22 14:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ,i wouldn't say you're lucky and i get the feeling you really don't think so either because you listed his faults and then said"despite this,",,,,,then you reminded us that he was nice..you're really reminding yourself.....I've been married for 26 years,,we've had our ups and downs as all couples do but I'm not mistreated in any way...he treats me with respect,,he's a decent guy,,hard worker,,good sense of humor,,,i get from him as i give to him....and that's how it should be,,,,one shouldn't give more or take more......
2006-11-22 14:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by ggmsixer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO give him a 1. he dont do anything for you. you need to leave him alone. Move on, soon.
2006-11-22 14:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by Rissa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋