im going out with this girl right now and were in a long distance relationship. i actually cheated on my ex 2 times just for her but i have 2 say i styl loved my ex n miss her everything as a friends only though. My problem is my gf right now i have stronger feelings for her than my ex but with that i dont know if im doing the right thing or not because right now it causing me a lot of money with this relationship. i dont really care at all abt the money and everything but i dont think i can handle that respondsible 4ever. what if things doesnt work out between us. btw im 19 n shes 16 n she said that since then she found out that i cheated on my ex she said that she loves me and everything but she will always have a doubt abt me. my question is.. is it worth it loving her or should i let her go?
2006-11-22 14:18:05 · 15 answers · asked by chubey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
any more opinion guys???
2006-11-22 15:10:59 · update #1
Definitely let her go. A long distance relationship is hard enough when you have control over your life enough to travel and see each other - but at this stage in your life there is no where it can go. Remain friends if you want but you should have someone you can go to the movies with and kiss at your age. It's best for the both of you.
Peace!
2006-11-22 14:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not the answer you're looking for. You need to let her go and both of you do some growing up. You may think you are grown up at age 19, but you've got a lot to learn about love.
I don't know why she would be interested in a guy that cheats. Can you blame her for having doubts?
2006-11-22 14:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably let her go, first of all this is sagetory rape, second you cheated in a past relationship and sound like you still have feelings for your ex and will probably cheat on this one if the situation presents itself and end up breaking her heart. You sound like the man that our mothers warned us about.
Just let her go, she's to young to be in a commited relationship, let her live her life.
2006-11-22 14:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Chueby, you better drop her like a hot potato. She is underage. You could get in trouble if things go bad. Right now she is just to young to say she will commit forever to you. Give her a couple of years and than see what happens. There is always more fish in the sea.
Good luck
2006-11-22 14:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by sandymisitano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would always be worried if my partner had cheated on his now ex, just so that you know, every woman would, she is not being unreasonable there. Only you can tell where this relationship is going, time to have a good think about it.
2006-11-22 14:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by AusPixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by what you've said, your relationship with her looks pretty one sided. She might even be using you. Talk to her openly about it... be willing to let her go if things end up that way. You're only 19 after all and she's probably still pretty immature at 16, even if part of you wants to believe otherwise. There's lots of time for both of you to find who you belong with. :)
2006-11-22 14:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by sahariah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go because she doesn't trust you & no trust no love!!
You should always end a relationship first before you start with another because it is the right thing to do & you will be more proud of yourself if you do
It's very hard to have a long distant relationship also
find a new love that lives close to you
2006-11-22 14:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 is too old for a 16 year old, she is still a kid, though I'm guessing you have the mentality of one. No offense, but why would you want to date someone still in highschool? Let her go and find someone your own age.
2006-11-22 14:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you basically buried your hole by cheating on a girl. Now every girl you go out with and you tell, will always be wary of you. I'd say stay with her, but realize the fact you messed up, and your gonna pay for it.
2006-11-22 14:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let it go be theer done that but he was 20 and i was 19 and it did not work and she dont trust you whats the point
2006-11-24 20:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by hot_mum21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋