When you love someone and you would do anything for him and make all the effort in the world to see him buit he just doesnt try to make the same effort to see you are you suppose to love him and be with him and still make an effort to see him???
2006-11-22 14:14:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the question should be "can i give up in his love??"
if i say yes, sweetie just give up.. stop thinki of him.. forget bout him.. so, r u going to listen me???
the answers always is no...........
i know tat kinda love is hard & difficult..
but i believe one day u will find a best way .. the only way is u .. not our advices.. can u stop lovin him?? can u do tat???
2006-11-22 14:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. everything in a relationship should be 50/50. why should you make all the effort when instead you could be putting the effort into pleasing yourself. if you have to make a trip to see him and he wont come to see you, then why not take a trip on your own. that you know you will enjoy and put the effort and attention you were going to give him and pamper yourself. and thank him for every nice thing you do for yourself. use him as your motivation for being happy.
2006-11-22 14:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Tiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, the thing is....when you love someone it doesn`t always make a lot of sense. You can love someone who is insensitive and an asshole. The thing you have to ask yourself is not whether you love him or not, but whether you want to be with him or not. He obviously does not give as much as you, and no matter how much you love him, HE may not change his behavior. Are you willing to wait around to see what happens or take your life into your own hands and end it right there?
2006-11-22 14:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are about give and take. There's certainly still hope for you two if you still love him, but somehow you need to make your feelings clear to him. If he is unable to return your affection or unwilling to, be strong enough to walk away. Life does go on, even if you're faced with tough stuff like this.
2006-11-22 14:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by sahariah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pinch of Effort worth Pound of Cure .. my grandmother use to say.. ... its up 2 U...everyone else says forget him...
2006-11-22 14:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
supposed and love do NOT belong in same sentence..... you love because you love and for no other reason..... there are all levels of love....... you may love him with your all, but he may not feel the same...... and face it, guys are just not as feely touchy as us gals....... they think a romantice nite, ok some guys do, is sitting in front of the TV and giving you a smile every hour on the hour...... they call that giving you their attention !!!! God bless
2006-11-22 14:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats called one-sided love.. and most of the time it doesnt work out. and he wont respect you and youd only sacrifice with nothing in return.
2006-11-22 14:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by sam3345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to be used if he does not understand your feeling and emotions and not responds to your efforts
2006-11-22 14:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by loveboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its called being used.
2006-11-22 14:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably will cause you love him but you will eventually get tired of not getting what you think you deserve. and you will stop all the extra stuff you do or you will leave him
2006-11-22 14:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋