Oh god is she coming?...for these very reasons interferences from family and other things we pretty much have no relationship anymore.. guess weve been done since (July06) ..but why?..people got to hurt other people and especially when they act like their freaking perfect!!!... Isnt it better to say something nice than say anything at all... :(:(:( maybe its a blessing it will make the breakup easier...any input at all ?
2006-11-22 14:11:48 · 19 answers · asked by dreamy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you return after the first dumb encounter with boyfriend's loser parents and family. You know they say the apple doesn't fall far from the tree so maybe you better find another tree to get your nectar from. If boyfriend is so dense that he doesn't comprehend the content of his families' stupidity then he's a rotten apple decaying next to his decayed family. Move on and maybe look for a peach of a guy who has his own orchard - none of whom were suckled from his mommy and daddy. Just an observation from this arborist.
2006-11-22 14:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in spite of if he's under 18, he ought to nonetheless be charged with a criminal for enticing in sexual activities with a individual under the age of consent. it ought to be basically in "juvenile court docket" the place he could be dedicated to a application until he's nineteen, yet in many states, 17 is old enuff to be tried as an grownup as sent to penitentiary for various years. IOW, our society and lifestyle says that what you're doing is erroneous becuz you at the instant are not yet of an age the place you have a clue approximately it, and he's the guy who ought to be made to pay a heavy cost for it.
2016-10-12 22:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How rude.
That is truly awful.
I know you invested a lot of time in the relationship but hey - awful inlaws - at least you'll be free of these negative people who put you down to make themselves feel better. (They are obviously very insecure)
If you do infact breakup with your partner, how could you resist a parting swipe at them? I would have to ring them up and say something like "you'll be so pleased to know that next year I will not be coming to your Thanksgiving - and trust me for that I will be thankful!" and then hang up.
Good luck to you. I wish you well, and nice in-laws!
2006-11-22 14:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are considering breaking up because of this, then go ahead and do it. If he really loves you (which he probably does because you two have been together for 7 years) then he will tell his family that its too bad, they are gonna have to put up with you.
Maybe try laying all your feelings out on the table. Express to them that you feel like they greatly dislike you and more than likely (if they have a heart) they will apologize and treat you better because they are adults and should be sorry for making you feel uncomfortable.
2006-11-22 14:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Dana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's bad now wait till you get married to guy and his family doesn't like you.What you gotta do is stick to him like glue.You need to let his family know that your in love with him and there nothing they can do because it's your relationship not theirs.Family can be a pain sometimes they want to control everything going on around them.You breaking up with him is what they wanted i mean it.Besides if he couldn't talk to his family about respecting you and keeping their thoughts in their heads then maybe it was for the best.
2006-11-22 14:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya dont go to the dinner and leave now and find someone who will either stick up for you in front of his family or be with you and not them for the holiday. Thats just plain rotten...but if you ARE going to the dinner and you ARE breaking up with him...go o the dinner and tell them the food is horrible, make snide comments you wouldnt normally make and if one of them starts harassing you just go nuts and tell them all to F-off and drop dead and walk out like a champ. You will feel alot better afterwards.
2006-11-22 14:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd you care? family should not have any impact on a strong relationship, so if your past relationship was weak, then it is not fault of family, it is fault of your relationship. after all there are many redicilous people who do not speak good words. people like to interfere into something off their business.
I have been hanging out with girls before, and always I see someone like to interefe even not family and not close friend.
2006-11-22 14:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Zorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should shock everyone and propose to him in front of his entire family at thanksgiving. No one would see it coming. Not only would it be a story to tell but it would be good for you. I have found that proposing usually brings people together. If you have been together for seven years i think that you are right for each other.
2006-11-22 14:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dead end. Dump him and date other men. And this time dont put up with that kind of crap for so many years before you waste your life away.
2006-11-22 14:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know family can be so hard to deal with....and they really do know how to break up relationships....I've been here and I know it's not fun....But to me it sounds like you really don't want to be in the relationship anymore yourself.....Why don't you just be woman enough to tell him and be done with it....
2006-11-22 14:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by girlegyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋