my sisters boyfriend got arrested because he is too old for her. i dont know how to help...help?

Question

THEY GOT CAUGHT IN A HOTEL LAST WEEKEND AND SHE KEEP ASKIN ME WHAT TO DO. OH YEA HE IS 18 SHE IS 15.

SHE SAY SHE IS SCARED THAT HE WONT TALK TO HER ANY MORE IF HE GETS LOCKED UP

Answer 1

its not your sisters fault.... it is the law.... he knew he was breaking it......

if he won't speak to her anymore...then he is probably just being cautious about getting caught in bed with her again...... because talking leads to other things a lot of the time.....

he may very well get locked up.....

18 and 15...i don't see anything wrong with it...... but it is illegal.... 3 years age difference is nothing at that age... now if he was 14 and she was 11 there would be a problem.....

Answer 2

He knows exactly what age a girl needs to be to have any kind of sexual intercourse. He knows the law and chose to break it.

Your sister probably does feel very bad about the whole thing, however it is not her fault.

Give your sister someone to talk to and lend her your ear. She will be very upset about the whole situation and realistically she will be extremely embarrassed that her sex life is now a part of the local or at least family gossip.

Let her know that this, like all experiences, will pass and she will be okay.

If she has not made a statement to police and is yet to do that she will need a lot of support about this time.

Just love your sister.

It is frustrating when a young man of 18 and a young lady of 15 with only 3 years difference in age can't get physical but that is the law and the law is there to protect young men and women who are not yet mature enough to make such decisions fr themselves, even though there will always be some people who are more mature at this age..

Best of luck

Answer 3

If shes lucky he wont talk to her, he shouldnt have talked to her in the first damn place, becuase chances are he was the one persueing her..................RIGHT!!! he knew what just what he was doing, had he not have been caught & Im glad he was caught, if it was my child, hed have more then the law on his butt! But, how many other kids has he done this too?? Let alone, what would he do or think if it was HIS CHILD???

He gets locked up, all the more better it is for her, she needs to get on with her life, & he needs to do his time, he did the crime. She has plenty of time to find love in her life, he now will have plenty of good loving in prison, from those that would be ALL to happy to show him. (that is if he knows not to drop the soap in the showers).

The best you can do to help, is tell her shes better off, no grown man should take advantange of a person that young. He has some major issues!!!

Answer 4

there is no help cause he will be charged with statutory rape cause she is a minor and he knows she is to old for her so where is your mother that she doesn't keep up with her teenage daughters unless she was at work and you'll were being disobedient and got caught good luck

Answer 5

Now, unless he's a IMIGRANT, then he should be ok. But if he is in fact an IMIGRANT, boy is he in trouble. My mom was going to do the same thing with my now brother-in-law since he was an imigrant and she was underage. But dont worry, nothing major should happen to the guy. (Only if he was born here)

Answer 6

will sweetie your sister needs a as whipping a real good one she has her whole life ahead of her do she not know that there is HIV and othere diseases out ther that she won't be able to get rid of

Answer 7

He'll get in trouble. He'll go to jail for a bit, he should have known better. Think about it...Why could he not get a woman that was around his own age?

Answer 8

There is nothin you can really do. I mean unless you can change her birthday and age your hands are tied. Sorry