Why is it guys seem to not view sex as a big step in their relationships?? Is that what you want from a girl when you ask her out?? Are you pressured by friends and that's why you don't see it as anything out of ur daily routine??
Just curious. I am a 5'1 95lb varsity gymnast, race cars, and all guys ever want in my relationships(as for my friends relationships too) is sex. Is it normal?? Why do guys start relationships wanting sex?? Is it not a big step for them?? Why not??
THANX!!
Would you rather have sex than have her sleeping in your arms?? Would you rather have her trust or your friends to be glad you scored??
2006-11-22 13:52:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boys arent interested in relationships, they just want sex. There is no way a boy under 18 is ready for the kind of relationships girls want. So he goes along with the idea of a relationship so he can get sex. A guy isnt ready to settle down until he is in his 20 s at the very least.
2006-11-22 13:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well me personaly sex is a big step in a relationship and i won't do that even to my gf unless i was married. yes some guys or pressured but the big part that you are missing is this boys have testrone. testrone makes us act the way we do that what makes male diffrent from female. if you think about it if no guy ever thought of sex do you think it would be alot of offsprings in the world. alot of it has to do with because back in the day people could get married as teenagers and younger. i would rather be respected than to have sex cause in the end you just have the title of being with alot of women and still single its kinda crazy but thats how it is. boys think of sex constant and its not easy to surpress that cause am here to tell you as a male its hard as hell cause women just are sexy plain and simple so of course like you said your a gymanist they going to look at your body and want it cause its just in us to do that.
2006-11-22 13:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are young, there is peer pressure from friends on having sex. however, you will grow to realize that it doesnt really matter. doesnt mean youre cool. Wanting sex is perfectly natural. however, a real gentleman will wait until the female partner is physically and emotionally ready.
2006-11-22 13:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont want to go into excruciating detail, but women study men enough, that you will be able to find out from one of them. or from any smart nice guy who you can get to spill his guts.
moreover what i see with many women is that they get stuck in repetitve cycles, because they are want, and what they need are far different. just like in shallow hal, guys who arent as externally beautiful wont focus on it as much as internal beauty, and vice versa.
but dont be fooled, men are sexual beings, when they communicate, they communicate about plans, actions and logic. women seem to communicate more about how things relate, emotions and the 'feel' of things.
2006-11-22 14:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by starworks5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most of my friends are that way, and they always pressure me...but i want a girl who will not have sex w/ me until marriage...it seems like all the girls i meet are sluts, and that's a big turnoff for me, i would rather cuddle and stuff w/ a girl than have sex w/ her...because once you have sex that's it, you don't want to touch her anymore for awhile...it's so quick. whereas cuddling or something you can do all night.
2006-11-22 13:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why r u so proud being a varsity gymnast n race cars?
Uve been repeating that in ur questions.
Guys who respect u doesnt ask for sex before getting into a relationship. So show them that u r respectable n stop bragging.
2006-11-22 13:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I love a woman sleeping in my arms. We all don't think the same, sex is just a big bonus.
2006-11-22 13:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Eastpack69 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Date a guy and don't give him sex. I'd rather fall asleep with her in my arms, and have her trust, you gota find guyst like that.
2006-11-22 13:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Reality sucks.
2006-11-22 13:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by The Cuke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must be a virgin. girls like sex just as much if not more. sex is what humans are put here for. reproduction. just like any other living creature in this world.
2006-11-22 13:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋