Is it wrong?? WHY???

Question

Is it wrong to date your neighbor?? He asked me out but I didn't answer. Would it be wrong to date him. My friend says it would.
My friend says it is him fatasyzing(spelling?) cuz I am a 16yr old varsity gymnast and I Have 5 cars that I race. (all are performance enhanced.)
He is sweet and really hot!! Should I say yes? Does it seem like He would take advantage of me?? She says so. He's a yr older.

I am not a virgin already but she thinks I am so that's why she thinks he will use me. Do you all think he would??

Answer 1

i dont think it is wrong.
but how old is he?
in any case, go out with him... have fun!!'

Answer 2

GO FOR IT - I dated my neighbour for a year when I was your age. I had a fantastic relationship with his mum and we are still friends now. I look back and think about that being my best relationship ever (apart from the one I am in now) because we would sit in our bedrooms and be able to see each other across the yards. He even snuck out once to throw pebbles at my window just to tell me he loved me. If you expect boys are going to take advantage of you you will never have any good relationships, just be aware of yourself and stay true to who you are. Don;t let them take advantage.
He probably just thinks you are hot like you think of him!

Answer 3

What do your cars or you cheerleading have to do with anything. Do you get along with him? Going out with him once to see if there is chemistry doesn't seem like such a bad idea. If you know his family and think they are good peeps you probably won't have to worry about him trying to take advantage of you. If he does, you know where he lives and you can have someone kick his butt.

Answer 4

it is not wrong to date your neighbor, you could and should, on a first date, not bed him or allow him to bed you.

if possible, go on a group date, probably with your friend, and see how things turn out. if this guy really loves you, what comes to his mind when when he sees you should not be sex, also, be wary about him, if you see him constantly looking at your bust line, or making sexual advances towards you, it means that he is probably infatuated by your looks ( if you're hot ). if that is so, you could shake him off by arranging for him to meet sexier chicks then yourself, or completely ignoring him, if he does not leaves you, try talking to him or telling him that you have a better boy friend

Answer 5

Good Day.. !!.. do not think it is wrong to date the guy next door.!!..
If he asks you out... go out and get to know him over lunch or so.!!....maybe he has the same hobby with enhances race cars..
but dont think he will take advantage...you seem to very smart..d educated...and able to act for yourself..

Answer 6

I dated my neighbor for 2.5 years. It was great...until the breakup. Then I was stalked day and night. It was awful! One night, I was snuggling on the couch, watching a movie with a new "prospect," when I heard banging on the door: "I know that you are in there."

Advice: If it doesn't work out, you may want to move.

Answer 7

he's just 17 yrs old only.make friend only is nothing wrong whether he's ur neighbour.be aware of him to take any advantage of u!

take care n best wishes!

Answer 8

umm. . . . . .what so wrong about dating your neighbor again??? i see nothing wrong with it. you guys will be able to spend more time together. just one word of advice get to know him well before you guys get serious. but other than that enjoy it and have fun your a teen.

Answer 9

i don't think it is wrong if you say he is nice and you like him maybe your friend is just jealous and what guy doesn't want to date a gymnast race car driver that's hot

Answer 10

How could that be wrong? There's obvious chemistry between you both. It really isn't your friends decision to make, you know. Maybe your friend deep down wants to keep you single or something. I say go for it.

Answer 11

if he is only a year older...i don't see a problem.....

say yes! your friend might just be jealous that a hot sweet guy is coming on to you....