Me & my boyfriend broke up about a month ago. Ever since, whenever we are together we sit really close and sometimes i lay on him but say we're just friends. He hugs me & stuff but he also never talks to me. He calls me once a week with some other friends and we just talk. It's like nothing happens but it really does. We both want it back, so how do I tell him that i think we should get back together??
2006-11-22 13:43:47 · 12 answers · asked by Sara Lee Ann <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that the break you took from him madde you relize how much he meant to you, all the little things he did you miss, and how you still hang out like your together, and you miss that.. you never know he is doing all of this too showing signs that he misses the relationship yall had, talk to him about it. he may say the same thing. good luck.. zoe
2006-11-22 13:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by Zoe W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you have to tell him to meet you at a place you two can be alone. after that you should say i know we been together as a couple before and i know we didn't do so well i want to know what broke us up in the first place let him speak on how he viewed it then you say how you felt. then ask do you think we can be a couple again since we know how to respect each other now cause i think we both miss that. am sure he give you answer after you finish i hope its yes. if he says yes just say ok now that we are a couple again i want to say what gets me angry you tell me what gets you that way and that way when it comes to something that piss one of you off you can be submissive to the issue and there will be no fight or arguing about it cause you understand. hope this helps
2006-11-22 21:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he could be waiting for someone else to come by before he dumps you for good.
Talk to him alone, be frank about it. Tell him how you interpret his body language and see if he is sincere or if he is using you to attract someone else.
But Hon, hold on to your heart, do not let it hang on to hope without some concrete proof to back it up.
2006-11-22 21:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sort of in the same situation, my ex and i broke up about a month ago too and i really wanted to get back with him but right now, he isn't ready to get back so i'm just taking it slowly. guess you should too; get a bigger picture of things then decide if you guys should get back or not.
2006-11-22 21:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by dasnag 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you are physically still attached but phsycologically broken up. There is only one way. Either get back to gether on both levels or break it up all together.
2006-11-22 21:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that tough but you dont have to come straight up with him just give him signs but dont say after you give him signs we are just friends just let it happen. then when he is in the moment wiht you tell him that you think that you too should try it again because you miss the feeling you have inside when you are wiht him, tell him you miss his soft kiss, tell him you miss him being by your side everyday and looking at your color ide and seeing hin number pop up. he will come to his sences.
2006-11-22 21:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by *In Love* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if that's the case show minor affection and see how he replies to it and time is against you the longer you stay apart the gap will get bigger so make your decision now leave or try your luck
2006-11-22 21:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by wizard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAKE him some cookies put them in a small box. PUT a note on them saying "theres more where thies came from" THEN go quiet. DONT contact him. and sign your name.
2006-11-22 21:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just let him know....the only thing that can happen is that he turns you down
2006-11-22 21:46:19 · answer #9 · answered by iadoremarilyn86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may want it back he is just doing what you offer
2006-11-22 21:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋