is it worth the risk? will she be flattered or degrades me? should i do it?
2006-11-22 13:12:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, I've been there. That was how I got my wife to marry me. I didn't think I was good enough for her either,but I spoke from the heart and told her how I felt. She could have laughed at me or made fun of me in front of her friends,but instead,she was shocked at how I expressed myself.
The next seven years were the best time of my life till the day she died and I don't regret for one minute that I spoke up to tell her how I felt. Yes,it is worth it. The worst she can do is say no or "get lost loser!". Take a chance.
2006-11-22 13:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever let anyone make you feel like you aren't good enough or that you don't deserve what you want! Tell her! If she doesn't like it, she is not good enough for you! If she is not flattered, then she is crazy! It takes a lot of guts to tell someone that. You have proven you are a real man and that you are worthy once you do it. It will be her loss!
2006-11-22 21:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by stumped dummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the risk and tell her how you feel, if you dont you will never know what could have been the possible outcome. Most likely she will be flattered and atleast give you a chance. If shes not dont let it bruise your ego too much, if she isnt willing to give you one shes not worth your time. good luck! =]
2006-11-22 21:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by MeLiSsA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think you are not good enough? that's not the right attitude you need to be successful in life.. we are all human beings and we all have strengths and weaknesses.. nobody is better than anyone else.
tell her how you feel, but don't come on too strongly if this is someone you haven't even talked to. approach the situation like you ARE good enough.. approach the situation as if you are equal and you both belong in the conversation with each other.
good luck!
2006-11-22 21:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know if you don't try. I know how hard it is to get a turn down. I think we have all been where you are. You may get lucky and be really glad you rolled the dice. Or you may feel embarrassed, but you will live. So go for it. :)
2006-11-22 21:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because at least you feelings won't get bottle in if you don't tell her u like her some day you will regret not telling her
and if she humiliates you or hurts you she wasn't worth it after all remember not all crushes are reasponded don't feel bad if she doesn't like you.
2006-11-22 21:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but if she turn you down
it will scar you for the rest of your life...
take it from me.... i am currently in a similar situation....
Get to know her better....wait till she let you into her personal life... (im already there and now is just seeing if she likes me.)
this way you will be sure.
2006-11-22 21:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by SomeGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if u like them go w/ ur feelings dont worry about bein rejected
2006-11-22 21:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzy_bubbles_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always tell a person how you feel you never know how they will take it, and you will regret it if you don't.
2006-11-22 21:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jack Daniels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll be flattered--please do it! you never know, she might like you too.
2006-11-22 21:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋