ok so there is this guy...he is 17 and i am 14. and he has told me that he likes me. but i dont like him. he has mentioned to me about some physical activity and it is a little weird. he is friend with my sister and he keeps asking me if i want to hang out with him and how he wants to hold me and all of this stuff. and it is a little weird. so how do i handle this. do i flirt back or do i tell him to back off. help me. what would you do in this situation. PLEASE HELP ME.
2006-11-22 13:05:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do not like the stuff he is doing,then dont be gentle about it. If u tell him to back off and he does not then u need to go to a adult and tell them.This is not normal. 17 and 14 is a big difference and he should find somebody his age.let alone his school !!(usually 14 and 17 yr olds r not in the same middle school,unless he was held back,which is NOT a good sign!! or ur really smart,but if that was the case you wouldnt b asking for advice)
2006-11-22 13:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to fu*k off... you're way too young to worry about some 17 yr old prick that you don't like. Besides why waste your time with someone you don't like when there might be a better guy waiting in the shadows so to speak.
2006-11-22 21:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by kit_e_kat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definitely to Back off! He only wants one thing from you. I would also tell your parents. Do not even attempt to flirt back.
2006-11-22 21:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell your sister or your mom that he is doing this, and tell him to leave you alone. He's way too old to be talking like this to you. Tell someone now!
2006-11-22 21:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should not date as 14 year old. Period.
2006-11-22 21:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jax4all 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have no interest in him, tell him that. Tell your sister that he keeps bothering you. If that does not make him stop, tell your parents. IF you do not he will think this is acceptable, and never understand that No means No .
Corey
2006-11-22 21:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by ucfmanic 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
eewwww, never flirt with someone you don't like. You end up feeling guilty for leading them on, & may break their heart. Or worse, you end up embarking on a sympathy relationship!!!
2006-11-22 21:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by jnet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, if u r not interested in him u need 2 tell him r u tell someone tell him. if he is cute and attracted u just need 2 sit back and think about it.
2006-11-22 21:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by #1 tweety fan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He wants to have SEX with you.... plain and simple.....14 y/o babygirl your too young....If you flirt back you'll be fighting fire with fire.....just tell him to ease up on wanting to do all those things to you.....that you're not ready for all that....He's to old for you sweetie......Leave him alone.....Please......!
2006-11-22 21:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by girlegyrl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what ever you do, dont flirt back! he might just take advantage of you... love is not spelled out with "i want to hold you."
2006-11-22 21:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋