I finally had a chance to go out with A guy i had my eye on for a while, he sent me love notes and was really sweet, and i dumped him!! I dont know why!! Can you give me some advice?
2006-11-22 13:05:39 · 15 answers · asked by Jenna-Kate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you're not ready for a serious relationship. You just had a crash and it's over. There's nothing wrong with it. If you're young, then why would you want to have a serious relationship for? Just go out and have fun. When you're old enough and you feel ready for a serious relationship then go for it. Serious relationships take loads of responsability. So just go out with the guys and have fun. It's not time for you to be in a serious relationship yet
2006-11-22 13:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG--i had the same habit...it took me like, A LOT of thinking....why i dumped guys quickly was because i was afraid that they wouldn't stay with me for that long, or i was afraid of getting TOO close to them....still have no idea why i was afraid of that...lol..take the poor guy back, and give it some time...good luck!! <33
2006-11-22 21:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called Immaturity!
Your young.. and you wont grow up till your in your late 20's... I used to do the same thing..dump guys just because.
An older woman once said to my husband that I was about to divorce..."Give her enough rope and she'll hang herself"
That old lady was right.
I was loney and sad for the next 10 years...
Grow up! Or you will be very loney, alone and Sad..
2006-11-22 21:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by multipure417278 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you can learn to love someone else, you need to learn to love yourself first. Don't concentrate on guys for a while, concentrate on yourself. Be happy with who you are and where you are right now, by yourself. And THEN while you're being happy with yourself, a guy will be drawn to you and things will just click. You won't have to work for it and you won't feel the need to randomly break up with your boyfriends anymore.
2006-11-22 21:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by tstqtpie4christ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i usually date a guy for a day, no lie. Like one time i told a guy how i felt because i thought i really liked him but the next day i realized i didn't like him how i thought i did. I think you will find the right guy in a matter of time.
2006-11-22 21:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by ...*Jen*... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you arent ready for a relationship. are you sure your into guys?? i would take up a sport or hobby and it will direct your competitive/ impatient energy into something else and take away you need to find something new. hollla
2006-11-22 21:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Joe F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help. You don't want anyone, really. You think you do, but you destroy every chance. Get a therapist.
2006-11-22 21:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jane BK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dumping them.
2006-11-22 21:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, u are jus lyk my best friend...she will lyk someone, but den loses intrest very easlii...it isnt wut u should or shouldnt do...its jus dat dey arnt da one..ur looking for some on perfect, and der is nothing wrong wit dat....its not dat u broke up wit him fast, or u coulnt keep him, its jus dat DER NOT DA ONE....so stop frustrating urself over it!...jus follow ur heart, and it will tell u wut to do
2006-11-22 21:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't worry. The right man will come along. Be patient!
2006-11-22 21:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋