please be kind and answer my Q?

Question

Can u relate to this?
i don't really have a family.
i have friends but i don't really see them because they all busy and same live far away.
i learn be just be by myself alot and i am use to it now.
still some time i want to belong in a family.
my mother said that i was a mistake and all the bad stuff that a parent shouldn't tell to a child.
i used in a positive way, i am in college doing what i wan to.
i go to movies myself, i everything myself.
some time i talk to my friend on phone and i feel that it good to keep them around even do i am not with them physically.

i am not bad or anything i just wanted to know if there are people out there who can relate to my story
and how u survive

Answer 1

everyone has a picture of what a real family should be -- only thing is that only a few have the painted picture of what a good family is really like. i give you credit for going out on your own and going to college. don't look back - just look ahead - don't worry about being by yourself - the thing is you are making it on your own. if you are lonely, join some clubs at college, get a part time job, volunteer at a hospital - anything to bring you close to people, if that is what you feel you need. you don't need to ask how to survive, it seems you are doing it very well and i say - GOOD for you, just keep up the good work. make college work for you and get a good job. you'll find everything you need as you walk your own path through life. i wish you well.

Answer 2

After reading your question wanted so bad to reach out to you. First of all your mother sounds pretty messed up. You are not a mistake but in fact an unexpected blessing.
God has a purpose for you and he has a special plan for your life. I don't know you but am very proud for you for going to college. There are so many people with family support that don't go to college. So be proud of yourself!! And as for the lonely part, I don't know how you would feel about this but Churches offer group meetings for singles that aren't really looking for a mate but just companionship. i have found that people that recognize a higher power are less selfish and more caring of what others need. For me it is being needed and having a place where I belong That makes me feel fulfilled.

Answer 3

Well, I do have a loving, caring family, but I feel all of my good friends live miles away. I'll be at school, and feel totally left out of a lot of activities, just because people are too retarded to see I'm left out. I'm sorry for your negative experience. God is with you, though! He'll always be your friend!

Answer 4

First of all i would like to say that don't ever feel ashame of ur life. I don't share a same storry like u , but can genuely say thay are many more. Whose life is quite simillare to u. And by the ways, in ur birth there was no mistake of urs. Everythings belongs to them . I do know that when we have no one around us we feel life boring and uninteresting. We want someone to share our sorrows and pains. Somone to be with us whem we are in need. But dear, not everyone is happy get all this. So never mind, lead ur life in its simpliest form. Go shopping alone, sometimes talk with ur freinds and if can go in a long drive. You will life will be again be bright reducing ur dullness. Take care. And thanks for sharing ur question and nowing it with my veiw. Thanks once again.

Answer 5

i know the feeling, im only 18, and looking for my father, live on my own, pregnant, im afraid to be alone, and so i just stay inside, and stare at the wall, i hate it.

my mother and all my friends live in montana and im stuck in south carolina..if u need someone email me

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Answer 6

well you shouldn't be sad to be alone alot of people go throught this mabye try getting more friends that go to your collage also you might try to get a boyfriend don't tell me you don't have a crush in you mothers topic don't let her get you down if she doen't appreciate U it's her problem.

Answer 7

yes i can.
my mom and i don't get along. she always say shitty things to me.
i do have a couple of so called friends but i still be by myself. my mom hated me because of my daddy. he was never there for me. she turned everyone(family) against me. but I'm still going by myself. she made me not trust anyone. i haven't even told my boyfriend that sometimes i don't trust I'm. I'm just used to being by myself now.