Hey, girls, i need to ask a couple of questions.?

Question

Hey, i am a girl too just to tell ya. I have never had a b/f, and people are making fun of me for that. Is it wrong to be alone? I want a b/f, and i know who, but what do i do to impress him? I asked him out already, and he said no, but i cant get it through my head. What do i do? I really need to impress him. I want him to like me. FYI, he has never had a girl/f . help?

Answer 1

You can't make anyone like you. Sorry, hypnosis doesn't work. I guess you could try those new phemerone body colognes, they are supposed to work? I never tried them. BUT, you just can't force the issue sometimes. Even though you have a crush on this guy, you might be trying too hard. Is he shy? If he is, he might be scared by your aggressive behavior. If you back off a bit it might help. Are you 'friends' with him? If not maybe you could tell him you want to be friends, if he's shy it might help him over come that shyness. That way you still are in contact with him, and it opens up a possibility of him becoming interested in you. Just remember, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be.

PS: If it doesn't work with him, then think, what if some guy who you hated wanted you to out with him? It would drive you nuts, right? Good luck! :)

Answer 2

No, it's not wrong to be alone. If that guy doesn't like you, it's probably best not to seem needy or desperate. But, you shouldn't make a guy your boyfriend just so that you can say you've had a boyfriend before. You should only have a boyfriend if you are willing to put in the time and effort in it to make the relationship work. If you really do want a boyfriend, stop looking for one. You seem to find the thing you want when you're not wasting your time looking for it.

Answer 3

Don't worry about what people say. They make fun of you because they are jealous and have no self control, they are sluts and you are pure and good. Stay that way. As for impressing boys, they are not special you do not need to impress them. Find someone you can be yourself around. Spend this time getting to know yourself so that when you are ready to start dating you know who you are and what you want in another person

Answer 4

Maybe he has high standards that are unreasonable, so high no one normal can meet them, so therefore he never wants to be with them. There are also other possibilities, such as he could be figuring out if he should "come out of the closet" or he just wants to stay single forever. Or he could just simply not like any one that has come along in his lifetime. If I were you I would move on and not try to change myself for him. If you do do that and you do win him over, the relationship might not work put or be any fun if you have to be who you were when you impressed him.

Answer 5

First off, it’s not wrong at all! I think being single is fun, and I’m not some loner with no friends. I go to parties, I have friends, and guy-friends, and even some guys who think I’m cute. I’m sure you do too. I just think, unless you can accept yourself as a single girl, you shouldn’t date.

That might sound weird, but its not. If you are thinking/worrying about not having a guy in your life, you will start to totally depend on that guy & you will loose all sense of who you are.

Now, this jacka.s.s that turned you down…he’s obviously not interested but I think its really cool you had the courage to ask him. You should try your confidence out on some one better. As for your friends making fun, I think that’s just because they are just doing that because they don’t want people to ridicule them.

Answer 6

you've never ever had a boifriend???
wow!!! dats why they say u learn sumthin new evryday...

first of all, you shouldnt have 2 do ne thing 2 impress a dude because he shood lyke everything about you and accept you the way you are; the dude shood be impressing you!!! but if you feel that you still "N33D" 2 impress him then, try sum new outfits that show ya figure, try and start a conversation with him (but dont make yaself seem desperate tho) if he doesnt wanna go out with you then, tha dude must be on crack or sumthin because he's neva had a grlfriend eitha and his "match-made-in-heaven" is right in front of him and doesnt see it... dont waste ya tyme on him cuz i kno dat there's otha dudes on dis planet dat wouldnt mind knowin YOU.

Answer 7

well no it's not wrong that you never had a bf. who care what other people say. you dont listen to what another say to you oh ok. well my advise to you is. to get to know him. dont jump into having a bf right away. just get to know each other and tell him look i just want to be friends. then maybe he will see how cool you are. then start liking you. so i would say take it slow and see what things happen. if nothing happen dont worry. there are alot of another guys out there for you. there someone out there who special for you and he will find you. if that guy doesnt want anything with you.then you guys can still be friends. so i hope my advise help you and good luck.

Answer 8

Don't force something that may not happen. Good for you for making the first move but if he said no then most likely you are not his type. Don't be bummed out because this happens to people all the time. You will have b/f in time....Leave him alone and don't change who you are just so that he can like you.

Not everybody in the world is going to like you and you don't have to like everyone either.

Answer 9

ok first of all it is not a bad thing to be alone and if you just being yourself dosen't impress him then he don't need you you can do better you should never feel that you have to impress someone to get a b/f ok just be patient and when the time is right you will get one and it might just be "the one"
i am married to my high school boyfriend i shoud know

Answer 10

u can impress him if he doesn't like u, cause he would not think anything u do is impressive so leave it alone and don't make urself look like a f.o.o.l, there is absolutely nothing wrong with not having a bf, so don't feel bad. ur friends just don't know how to b friends.