ive bin friends wit this guy for 4and a half yrs and in the past 18months or so ive bin lookin at him in a difff lite. i think about him all the tym and weneva we go out (in a grp of friends) we flirt like mad, esp if we've bin drinkin. our m8s have noticed n make jks about it and weneva we talk he calls me baby etc - bt bare gals lyk him and he talks about other girls in front of me. is he just bein smooth (coz he is a flirt) or does he actually like me?
2006-11-22 11:41:20 · 64 answers · asked by minitotz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats a difficult question. Because you never really know. Just keep paying attention to the things he says and maybe send hints to himthat you like him. but don't come on to strong because you dont want to oush him away since you guys are good friends.
2006-11-22 12:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Daniels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he like me or what?
I've been friends with this guy for 4 and a half yrs and in the past 18 months or so I've been looking at him in a different light. I think about him all the time and whenever we go out (in a group of friends) we flirt like mad, especially if we've been drinking. Our mates have noticed and make jokes about it. Whenever we talk he calls me baby, etc; barely any gals like him and he talks about other girls in front of me. Is he just being smooth (because he is a flirt) or does he actually like me?
Now that I can actually read this and understand it....talk to him. But if you both are seeing other people, you really need to think about what you really want. You cannot keep leading the other people you are seeing if you no longer have the same feelings about them that you did initially. Love and relationships are hard things, but you have to communicate with the pople involved in order for anything to be able to even begin to work out.
2006-11-22 12:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 months, 4 /12 yrs? He hints and stuff especially when you all are drunk? Stay friends cos he'll probably end up just using you. Ever read the book "Smashed"? there's a line in there where the guy told the girl "You're pretty when I'm drunk." If you have to ask questions, then you're probably better off leaving it alone completely, love. He should be always "clear" when he is trying to let you know how he feels...
2006-11-22 12:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea he's probably starting to get feelings for u too but remember yall been friends for 4 years so its okay for him to talk about other females..if u ask me yall shouldnt mess that friendship up by turning it into something else that might not work and things might not be the same afterwards..but you'll never know. But in the mean time, let him say something first about if things should go further or not, cuz girls seems to put their heart into every situation anyway and the guy dont. so let him say something first but if he dont just leave it at friendship
2006-11-22 12:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 22:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by porix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he has little respect for you, or he is an insensitive jerk. You are probably too available. 41/2 years is a long time. He should know by now how to behave in your presence. Speak with him, and if there is no change, move on with your life. It will be hard, but you can do it.
2006-11-22 12:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by hot chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what i did.tell him u lyk him.just straight out say it.youll feel a LOT better with it said.plus he might tell u he lyks u back.dont stress out about it tho.the worst he can do is say u should just be friends.but ya, when u tell him just b cool bout it.DONT hav a friend tell him(altho great to talk to friends arnt always reliable in that department)nd dont write a letter..he might not read it ...or sum1 else WILL.just be cool nd best of luck
2006-11-22 12:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he thinks ur a best friend and that u would act kool to bein called baby.But i may be wrong but this is what it sounds like to me.You should ask him but dont be upset if he answers you with a answer you were not hoping for,because like i said he mite think ur just kool and wont over react to this kinda thing
2006-11-22 12:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me, he sounds like hes just having a little difficulty deciding if he wants to take you to the next level, or if he wants other girls.
you should talk to him about it and ask him EXACTLY how he feels about you. if he cant give you a straight up answer, then hes confused and you should move on to someone who has more sure feelings back. because if you wait for him too long to decide, his choice might not be so sincere and he could just be settling for whats there and not for what he really wants (which to me sounds like other girls). take it one step at a time, and think about it more before you jump into things, or you'll end up getting hurt.
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2006-11-22 12:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never have a problem getting an answer from men. I want girls to ask. lol Go up to him and just say to him @ When are you going to stop playing games@ If he flirts harder then he like you if he stops then you know he is being cautious and men are only cautious around police
2006-11-22 12:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by guyinzion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋