y cant i get a boyfriend if all the guyz at school think im really hott?
2006-11-22 11:36:01 · 20 answers · asked by Emo_Gurl™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, maybe they think that you are unapproachable. in another word,"out of their league" all you have to do is say "hi, how's going" to the one you're interested in. trust me, that's all it takes to break the ice.
2006-11-22 11:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
92: The guys feel threatened by your looks. They think that you will be too much for them to handle. Display a more "human" side of yourself to them by making friends with a few of them, getting involved in after school events ( sports, art, drama, etc,) ! You have to be patient and give it time. Use this time to find a guy who won't go with you for all the glamour or sex. This will (glamour / sex) end up with you having to find someone else if you don't grab the right guy - so why waste your time ? Focus on being "datable" not on going steady. In this way, you can play the "field" and have lots of exposure to various experiences and fun while you are young, dating the guys - enjoy yourself - there's no rush - you are not in a contest. Good luck to you.
2006-11-22 20:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Adam. However, if you also have a good attitude, then you must be unapproachable. In other words, your good looks intimidate guys. How about smile at them first, or speaking to them first, in order to break down the wall of intimidation. It's hell being hot girl! I'm a guy with the same problem. This is what I found works best. Good Luck!
2006-11-22 20:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by DJK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww Tash ..... poor you ..... it will happen .... once these boys wake up to themselves ...
Maybe they don't think they have a chance with you ... cause you're too HOT??? ...
Turn on the A/C and cool down a bit babe .... guys can be intimidated by a nice looking girl ... just be yourself and the one who's suitable for you will ask you out :)
(Sounds like something out of Sleeping Beauty .... or .... Shrek ...LOL)
2006-11-22 19:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to get a boyfriend and worry about something more important going on in your life. You're young, focus on bettering yourself and preparing for the future.
2006-11-22 19:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause your rushing too hard and the boys are still learning to walk and talk at the same time plus the hormone thing the guys are going through makes them a bit immature soooo.... don't rush the boyfriend thing.. it's great just having friends, hanging out and enjoying life at this age....
your time will come.... promise.. oh.. and then things go too sheit...
2006-11-22 20:01:05 · answer #6 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time....... just let it happen. I'm sure that there is a really great guy out there who is just waiting to meet you. My Mom, bless her once told me that you the right person is just waiting on the horizon looking for you just as you are looking for them. As your life's journey progresses you get closer to that horizon.....now isn't that something to look forward to?
2006-11-22 20:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bohemian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are hot, just hang out with a guy who you think has a crush on you.
2006-11-22 19:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by smiffy_nooga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try having one of ur friends talk to a guy 4 u
2006-11-22 19:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by the king 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u sure they think yur hot?
flirt with one of them
then find something in common
sooner or late he's got to get brave enough to ask
2006-11-22 19:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋