i like this girl in my class, but she doesnt seem 2 notice. how should i tell her?(im in 6th grade)(im also pretty shy)
2006-11-22 11:19:25 · 20 answers · asked by John S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well do you ever talk to her? you could start just by saying hello to her and asking how her day is...maybe ask if she wants to have lunch with you?
2006-11-22 11:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by the WOG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be shy, too!
If the person replies with a no, it would be mortifying, wouldn't it? If you never tell her, it'll be a burden to you.
The best thing to do is tell her. Start off with a plain conversation, then just change the subject- that's what I do. The words might get out and there would be gossip and such, but you can always learn to get over it.
Shyness is something everyone can overcome- my friends say I'm shy. But shyness is a part of everyone. Forget about being shy and live for the moment.
Good luck!
2006-11-22 19:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by UnexplainablyBeautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You honestly don't have to tell her. Let her know by your actions. They speak more than words sometimes! Try helping her with something mayber holding a door for her. A lot of guys worry about what to say but honestly I think she would be a little creeped out if you just went up to her and said : I like you: I think you should start a good conversation get to know her a ltlle let her get to know you then break the ice by sking her to come over or go somewhere.
2006-11-22 19:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 12 or 13, cool out. Desperate is the way of the world.
In time, (you have all school year) you will ask her to a movie.
Girls like shy boys, as oppose to show offs, I promise...
2006-11-22 19:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIrls love it when guys do cute things for them that make them feel special. Try to get to know her first, as a friend so if you do tell her how you feel it isn't as abrupt!
If you do the smallest favors for her, it will not be looked down upon at all! But be careful; you don't want to be labled as "the nice guy" so find a comfy spot in the middle.
I think you should tell her, so you won't wonder what "would have been."
but just do what you are comfortable with :)
elle.moon
2006-11-22 19:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is great! being shy... girls like that in a kinda funny way. Compliment her at least once a day for a week. "Hey! great hair".. and keep walking. By the beginning of the next week she will be noticing you..
2006-11-22 19:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by lepluver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do u guys talk? if not don't say anything cuz then u'd just be sad with the answer. first get to know her first. start up a conversation then once u have an open communication with her. ask another question here. haha good luck
2006-11-22 19:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send Her A Note Or ASk Her F riends WHat She Likes
2006-11-22 19:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kecia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a quiet place/moment and just tell her how you feel...Be brave cos if you dont ask, you won't get and she might never know you like her and think you dont care and go on with someone else...another guy will beat you to it if you dont act to get your answer sooner.
2006-11-22 19:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mark n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say make some kinda contact with her thats a little different from what you normally have, like say hi more often and maybe ask her questions about homework or what not and just go from there....
2006-11-22 19:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋