I introduced my 2 good friends, and she ended up liking him. The two ended up having sex and now my friend is so obsessed with him. Sadly he dosen't want nothing to do with her.She talks about him all the time and this makes me feel guilty. because him and i slept together before. We agreed not to say anything. What should i do?
2006-11-22 11:04:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not much of a friend are you? She's going to find out sooner or later, and you SHOULD feel guilty. and HE is simply an AZZ. You might want to go get checked for an STD and take your "friend" as well she will need one because it sounds as if this guy is just a loser user and you've both been doormats for him.
2006-11-22 11:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think I would unless you want to risk losing her as a friend. In the twelve-steps of Alcoholics Anonymous, step 9 reads: "Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others."
I think telling this friend of yours that you had previously slept with the guy that you infact set her up with, would qualify as intentionally hurting her. I hope you're not wanting to sabotage their current relationship or fling for selfish motives. Try to let go and just let it work out the way it works out. I realize this is sometimes not easy to do but I feel it's the best thing to do in this situation. Good luck.
2006-11-22 19:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her. The two of them are not going to have a relationship anyway so he's not going to tell her. I don't see why you feel guilty. You didn't break them up and you didn't ruin her chance (he's not interested in her). He was fair game.
2006-11-22 19:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by tbonz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you aren't a very good friend are you.
You need to tell her and let her choose if she still wants to be cool with you. You need to ask yourself why you didn't tell her in the first place; LIKE A REAL FRIEND WOULD.
2006-11-22 19:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by latina_soldier 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you're just another little jealous bitc*; am I rtight? What should you do? Mind your own friggin' buisness; that's what you should do!!
2006-11-22 19:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't want to discuss him and she needs to express her feelings to him. Their relationship or lack of is between them..
2006-11-22 19:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by lepluver 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm...maybe i think just maybe it IS your foult that she is obsessed. and you should feel guilty it is a sin to have sex before you are married
2006-11-22 19:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by mar! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should keep it quiet if you want to stay friends. just never do something like that, or try to w/e, friends should come before guys.
2006-11-22 19:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by LoLa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friendships are about trust. Tell her.
2006-11-22 19:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Steven A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont be a bad hoe! tell her!
2006-11-22 19:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by sisi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋