what would you do if your boyfriend did that to you?
2006-11-22 10:52:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Smack him up side the head and tell him to be gettin' he own puter.
2006-11-22 10:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not enough information. Maybe he needs some attention or maybe you need some attention--if you are sending so much time with the computer that he has to pull your hair to get your attention. If it was in an abusive way time to find a new b/f that knows how to keep his hands off other people's children.
2006-11-22 14:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by maduckford 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alotof ppl are going to tell you to leave and that's what you should do..... If you dont have a ride call the police they will take you home and investigate.. Dont give up you both could end up dead eventually...... The pattern of control will not ease up it will get worse till he kills you then he'll probably become a murderer you should get help and DONT WORRY ABOUT NE1 BUT YOURSELF NOT HIM BEING LONELY NONE OF THAT CRAP WORRY ABOUT YOU DO YOU DO YOU DO YOU............ If you cant decide cuz of the love you htink you have just ask yourself one question do you want your baby to go threw what you have??? that will tell you what to do and how use your brain dont be stupid if your going to leave do it quitely unless if you have police with you dont start screeming and grabbing your things just leave quitely and find your way to the police.... GOOd LUCK i dont know you but im SENDING YOU SOME LOVE
2016-05-22 19:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just scrolled through some of your questions and saw that they all seem to deal with abusive acts on the part of your boyfriend. I say you leave him. If he persists with this abuse, and yes it is abuse, you need to contact the police and file a restraining order. You can also call 1-800-448-2044 for help. He sounds very dangerous and I am sure you are scared and confused. You may feel you deserve his abuse and that there is nothing better for you, but I can assure you that you don't deserve it, and there is someone better. Please do not stay with him any longer. You are putting yourself at great risk. My prayers go with you.
2006-11-25 08:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by Barb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should not be hurting you in any way. I hope you're not letting him see these messages. I wouldn't want him to hurt you more. There is never any excuse for someone to physically hurt you. Talk to a trusted friend. Do not permit yourself to be hurt in any way. This will probably mean breaking up with him. Unfortunately, violence has a way of getting worse. Take this as a sign and get help. I really wish you all the best.
2006-11-22 13:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well one thing you could do is ask him to leave your home -- whether the two of you are living together or not. This could also NOT be a good sign and if you know he has a violent temper -- you may want to think about the importance of this relationship.
If he doesn't want to leave -- call the police and file a report.
Also, you may want to seek couples counseling if you two plan on being together.
2006-11-22 10:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by cajun7_girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He'd be getting one heckova lecture on paitence and manners if he did that to me. If you two have problems then set a timer for computer time. Once the timer rings then change users. He's riding on thin ice pulling hair. Be careful.
2006-11-22 11:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm wondering what the deal is. Are you trying to play a joke on all of us by asking these kind of questions? I really wonder, because if you are a girl and you really are in this abusive situation, I am really worried for you that you are still with this person even though I personally (and many others on here) have warned you repeatedly to get out. If you this is true, please get out. If it's not true, please stop teasing us.
2006-11-23 08:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had something similar happen to me years ago with a boyfriend., and I decided way before it happened that any man that remotely comes close to abusing me is out of my life, and this guy I broke with that same night. So you got to look at any previous events they may have happened with him and see if there is a pattern, and then it is up to you.
2006-11-22 10:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I would realize that I was dealing with a controlling, manipulative, abusive jerk. If he thinks he has the right to pull your hair and push you around, it will only get worse. Get out while you can!
2006-11-22 10:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by fastlanejiggy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I would dump him. He has no right to pull your hair, especially to get on the computer.
2006-11-22 11:05:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋