its my boyfriends bday soon, & i wanna do somthing good. he said he wanted me, but idk if he means like ME. weve talked about sex, & how i wanna wait a while, but should i.. its his bday...
2006-11-22 10:48:13 · 24 answers · asked by carly =] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you're not a product to be used. You're a human being to be respected. Give him a CD or a hoodie or something. Don't be silly.
2006-11-22 10:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should never do anything that you don't feel 100% comfortable with. Your boyfriend should respect your wishes whether it is his birthday or not. He should not use it as an excuse to get into your pants. You be true to yourself and never feel obligated to do something you are not ready for yet. You will know when the time is right, and that will not necessarily be on anyone's birthday! If he really loves you, he will respect your decision and be prepared to wait. Good luck!
2006-11-22 18:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by salstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if it’s his bday, it’s your body and you make the decision. You need to be really, this is something you will remember forever. Wait you will know when it’s the right time.
2006-11-22 18:52:21 · answer #3 · answered by kathernva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't. That's exactly what my boy-friend asks for on his birthdays, every year...actually he asks for it everyday. Lol. Anyways, your boy-friend should respect your decision in waiting when the time is right..which is when you're ready. If he doesn't respect your decision, I'm sorry to say but, that means he won't respect you at all...ever.
2006-11-22 18:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush into anything especially because its his bday. wait a while it will come naturally one day and youll feel a lot less pressured and unsure about what to do
2006-11-22 18:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by kd baby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he said he wants you, he means that he wants more time with you. So what you do is take him out some where nice. Ice Skating, Dinner, Movie as long as he has time with you it should be an amazing birthday for him. Good Luck. ROCK ON!!!
2006-11-22 18:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by celloman2007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm...sex as a birthday present. How long have you've been with him and will you be happy with it in the end? Ask yourself these questions and you will know the answer.
2006-11-22 18:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by L.M.L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope u shoudnt..dont let him use his bday as an excuse 2 get what he wants
2006-11-22 18:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by × 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not if your noot ready and yall should go to the movies or get a hotel room 2gether or go to the club
2006-11-22 18:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Dont let anyone pressue u into anything... and if he does he doesnt love u as much as he says he does. Its ur decision, dont let him push u into such a huge decision.
2006-11-22 18:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by angelfacecutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋