why do girls go for jerks, and guy who you know dont treat them as well as they should be treated. just because they are "cute"
2006-11-22 10:47:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Girls" in general don't. For sure, some do. Turn it around, "why do guys go for girls who are brainless or mean, but stacked?"
'Cause shallow people, or confused people, make their decisions based on shallow or mistaken assumptions. Do you want to be with a girl who is "cute" physically but not perceptive enough to pick up on the fact that a lot of great, smart, funny, kind guys aren't gorgeous?
If so, does that make you just as shallow?
You need to widen your horizons, chum -- get out and take classes, try activities that you think might interest you, get to know some girls, make some girl friends (real friends, not "let's be friends"). Practice talking to girls and really listening to what they say, making them feel interesting (everyone wants to be thought interesting), making them want to be around you because around you is a safe, enjoyable place to be where they'll be accepted and valued as they are.
Make sure some of those girls are not the babes, but girls you might actually enjoy spending time with and talking to.
Might take some time to get the hang of it, but once you do, you will be swamped.
2006-11-22 10:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gonna take a wild guess and say that this has happened to an important girl in your life. Girls just do stiff like that because they are given the chance, if they cant think of a reason not to and don't see a relationship happening with anyone else anytime soon. If you really care about this girl (if there is a girl) then tell her she deserves better, she deserves to be treated better, maybe that will open up her eyes better. Tell how you would treat her. Hope i helped, Bye
2006-11-22 10:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by briacass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some like the challenge of trying to make a bad boy into a good and the others enjoy being controlled, despite what they say....They see that as being "Manly".
If a girl gets attracted to, turned on and enjoys being with a guy who has an attitude and jerks them around, then they actually "deserve" what they get anyways as they chose it.
2006-11-22 11:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mark n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women know what they like, but just like men they settle for the opposite.
Most of them preach that nice guy who will do this and that or at least that is what they say in front of there friends, but nice guys still finish last to bad boys with anger issues, family problems, bad credit, no education, and only look good with there clothes on.
Try the jerk approach and see how many women you end up with. You'll have to beat off with a stick.
2006-11-22 10:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you got it all wrong! I personally go for a man who is sweet and romantic. Like opening doors, paying for dinner,etc. If he can't be a gentleman I don't know why any girls would go for them. As for your comment of the jerk guys being cute, that may be but I'd go for an ugly sweetheart than a hot jerk.
2006-11-22 10:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion? some the place in-between. effective, yet no longer too effective. Be mysterious, a venture. do no longer enable a woman be attentive to precise away which you have an pastime. First, make her drawn to you. carry out together with her and her acquaintances, and compliment considered one of her stable acquaintances. this could make her jealous and he or she'll choose on your interest. do no longer circulate all out confessing your thoughts for her, because of the fact this could make it look too consumer-friendly. females like a venture, she needs to paintings to maintain you in her existence. Tease her a sprint, (no longer something too offensive, only humorous little comments). After a at the same time as, throw interior the occasional compliment. this could make her experience like she's earned the compliment, when you consider which you oftentimes only tease her. she will have the flexibility to paintings harder to attempt and earn extra compliments from you. in a protracted time interior the relationship, you are able to slowly substitute into further and further the stable guy. you only ought to play your enjoying cards precise early on so as that she maintains to have an interest and would not look at you as extra of 'a pal'.
2016-11-26 02:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by mimbsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are excited by the idea that their love can "tame" him. They think they will be The One who knows how he needs to be loved, and their love will change him. They're wrong, but that's one reason why they go for jerks. The others have to do with low self-esteem, lack of father/role models, etc.
2006-11-22 10:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the jerks wear sheep's clothing for long enough time to snare the girl. I for one don't like jerks. I never have. I like the nice ones. Good guys are hard to find, but jerks are unlimited in number. Good guys are precious, don't let anything convert you to jerkism.
2006-11-22 10:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience jerks usually talk more so girls pay more attention to them. The nice guys I know are more shy. Its not true for all guys though.
2006-11-22 10:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by Harold 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually bad boys are more assertive thus get more attention. Other guys think they're 'nice', but in reality, they're just BORING. Start a hobby, get out more, be out-going, and the girls will come flocking.
2006-11-22 10:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by jt_eradicator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋