what do you think about a guy who dates me for almost 4 months, and tells me about a good female friend he used to date (for 2 mos) that he still hangs out with, but he's never introduced us and doesn't tell me when they're going to go out (but will mention it in passing sometimes that he was at such and such bar with her). I would think if there was anything going on, he wouldn't even tell me about it after the fact, would he? I mean, he could always just say, I was at so and so bar and whatever... without volunteering the info that he was there with her (I'd never have any way of finding out).
2006-11-22 10:36:54 · 7 answers · asked by Kimmyq 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would also feel very insecure about this situation. the only thing you can do is be aware of it. The fact that they dated could either be a good or bad thing. He could still be holding a torch for her, or it could be that it just didn't work out romantically for them. I wouldn't quiz him too much on it just keep an eye on what he is doing and when and what he is telling you. If it makes you feel unstable in your relationship then I think you should tell him how you feel without making it sound like you are jealous. Tell him how it is - its your ex, but you don't tell me that you are seeng her. I feel like you are hiding something, even though i know aren't. if he is hiding something there's no guarantee you will find out, but if that's the case and you can't trust him, there's no relationship.
2006-11-22 10:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by caza1001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you tell him how you feel? Tell him your uncomfortable with him going out with another female you've never met before and it would help you out if he'd introduce the two of you. I mean would he like it if you went out with another guy you used to date without telling him and just nonchalantly mentioned it while conversing? Think about you're feelings too honey
2006-11-22 10:43:45 · answer #2 · answered by a1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're dating him just over 90 days and he's still dating other women, I think I'd move on. He calls it "hanging out" but I call it dating. I wonder what he tells her about you...? Just because he mentions it doesn't mean it's innocent.. when you find out he's been sleeping with her, he'll say "But you knew I was seeing her! I told you!"
He's just not that into you if he's still dating other women.
2006-11-22 10:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no law that says he has to take you along every time he sees her,and your sounding insecure right now and sound like you don't trust him to do the right thing.He's being up front and honest with you and you don't like it? They hang out at a PUBLIC place,whats wrong with that? Learn to trust your man or walk away,it's your choice.
2006-11-22 10:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...i would be suspicious of that one. tell him that you would like to meet her. try to make it a group thing and ask to meet more of his friends. you could all go to the bar and hang. bring some of your friends and make a big night of it. while out with this big group try to watch how he and this other girl interact. that way you can see for yourself what's really going on.
2006-11-22 10:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still has something going on with her. He's trying to have his cake and eat it too.
2006-11-22 10:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Scooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur getting sloppy seconds
2006-11-22 10:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by no_stiff_competition 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋