Well, it was all great, we were so happy, or so it seemed. All i wanted was to make him happy, so i let him do whatever he wanted to do, like, if wanted to touch me, i wouldnt say anything, and he would do it often, and we also had great long talks. I have knwon him forever and we're great friends. I dont know what else i could possibly do to make him happy. ANd until recently, he seemd very happy, but now i feel like he's ignoring me. I dont know what else to do. i mean i thought i was doing a great job as a girlfriend, we never fought or anything. so tell me what to do PLEASE!
2006-11-22 10:31:17 · 21 answers · asked by emu_candybar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe some girl touched him
2006-11-22 10:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron A 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your boyfriend may be having other problems that don't involve the relationship, it could be family problems and he feels like he does not want to involve you in what is going on. It sounds like you doing everything you should be doing, But if it were me I would be calling my boyfriend and asking what is going and how come it is that he has not been talking, find out whatever he can tell you. If he fails to tell what is going then there maybe more to it then what meets the eye, If he starts avoiding you more then you know you have problems. You won't know unless you talk to him . The key to a great relationship would be communication.
2006-11-22 18:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basing a relationship on letting him do what he wants isn't the best way 2 have a relationship, because all your doing is the same stuff over and over which can be tiring. you shouldn't let him come on to so. you should set your standards and if he don't like it, then he obviously isn't the one 4 you. Let him do what he wants with you is like him using you as a play toy and i'm not sure you want that. you just be comfortable and have fun, not being uncomfartable and just get use to what his doing.that just hurts the both of you. if you have anymore question you would like me to answer or help you with you know where to find me.
2006-11-22 18:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ximilee_roseX 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your job is not to do whatever your boyfriend wants in order to make him happy. A healthy relationship involves both people working together, enjoying life together.
When you meet the right person, you will find that he will celebrate your strengths and not be too bothered by your weaknesses. You will also find that you will love his strengths and not be too bothered by his weaknesses.
Sounds like you sacrificed who you are to please someone who wasn't worth all the trouble. It's not easy now, but have faith that you will one day meet the person who does not require you to do anything but be yourself.
All the best.
2006-11-22 18:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Colin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off. Show him the real you! If he doesnt like that you, than you wont be happy with him. Do what you want. And ask yourself this question... would he take a bullet for you? If you would for him and he wouldnt for you than this is a dead end deal. Play hard and don't talk to him... Flirt with other guys and get him to pay attention!
2006-11-22 18:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight with him a little. Resist him just a tiny bit. If you are just a doll, he is gonna see you like that. He'll become interested again if he thinks he is gonna have to work a little. He'll be proud of what he has done when he has what he wants (a.k.a YOU). Ignore him abit, and he'll come for attention, basically.
2006-11-22 18:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel he's ignoring you, the best thing to do, since you're a couple, you "TALK TO HIM". COMMUNICATION IS PART OF HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THAT'LL HELP IT LAST. Talk about what bothers you and listen to what he has to say. Good luck. I wish you well.
2006-11-22 18:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats where you went wrong. hes bored now. theres no excitment cuz you wouldnt say no. you were always doing what he wanted to do. and unless you change its not gonna owrk out.
good luck hun<33
2006-11-22 18:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by FairChild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought relationship is supposed to be fifty-fifty and not ninety-five-five. Is he also making you happy? You shouldn't be the only one making sure his needs are met, what about your needs? Don't worry about him, just move on girl.
2006-11-22 18:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by judy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand your thinking, you lay ed down and he walked all over you , and he can see there is no challenge to you or your body, so he is off looking for a new challenge
2006-11-22 18:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should stand up for yourself...beleive it or not your letting him push you around weather you like it or not. stand up for yourself. maybe you come off as "easy" to him or whatever just make sure if you feel somethings not right stand up for yourself! you might want to make sure he's not cheating (which unfortunally is a possiability). if you need anymore help just e-mail me at askme_ne_thing@yahoo.com
2006-11-22 18:35:55 · answer #11 · answered by Haley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋