Ok make it quick, i met a bloke we had sexual relatonship for a while, i never wanted anymore but he did. I said couldnt give it to him so he would take what he could from me as loved me. Recently its all broken down through silly arguements and me telling him he isnt enough for me. He treated me badly for a while and now we havent spoken for a few days. I dont have a righ to contact him really so............... is he just getting over it and moving on as he has no choice like he says or is he with someone else?
2006-11-22 10:01:37 · 15 answers · asked by lost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We always want what we can't have ....
He was eager and there for you and you said 'no.' He wanted more and you said 'no.' He has suddenly stopped wanting you and guess what? You miss his attention and companionship. So what happens next?
A) Do you say that you are sorry and try and make up or ...
B) Move on and leave the poor guy alone ...
Its your choice, what do you really want? The silly arguments were more to do with his fustration at not being able to move the relationship forward. Just good friends isn't going to work I'm afraid. You aren't serious just let him be or as I said 'say you are sorry and start being honest about how you feel - if you do! Only you know.
2006-11-22 10:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Roy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby he is no use, look at what you just said put the shoe on the other foot is this was a m8 of yours what would you tell her.
move on he is a ******* and get a bloke who will treat u like a real woman and love you comfort you and be their for you 24/7 not just when he wants
good luck babe
2006-11-22 10:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by cute sexy little feet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter if he's with someone else since you don't want to be more than friends? I would guess that you hurt his pride and ego, and he's sick of your games. It's rare that you can go from a sexual relationship to being just friends -- especially when one person still wants more than friendship.
If you want to be his friend, then call him and tell him that you apologize if something you said was hurtful, but you do want to be friends with him if he can accept those terms. You have to be ready to lose him as a friend.
2006-11-22 10:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by CaliGal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still thinking about him then you must care a little. But if he is just an amusement for you then the kind and decent thing to do would be to let him go and not contact him.
2006-11-22 10:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by Birdman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of your business, you didn't want a boyfriend, and now you've got your wish. And how on God's green earth are strangers on the internet supposed to know the answer to that?
2006-11-22 10:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You told the guy he was not enough for you why do you care if he has moved on or seeing someone else?.
2006-11-22 10:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reverse the situation and ask yourself what would I be doing, and youv'e answered your own question really.
You did'nt want him, so don't begrudge him being happy with somebody else.
2006-11-22 18:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is getting over it. Fair dues to him. Why do you care? Are you starting to like him now that he is rejecting you?
2006-11-22 10:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care if you didn't want a proper relationship? I think you should move on too.
2006-11-22 10:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i assume your feelings have changed and you now want more. you just need to tell him..got to be better than not knowing...he may be trying to protect himself thinking you dont want him or dont care..which you obviously do. if you tell him you have nothing to regret as its his decision...if you dont you will always wonder what if..pick up the phone and talk to him..you only get one shot at life..good luck
2006-11-22 10:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by slsvenus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋