My mom and I are always mad at eachother!?

Question

she wont stop bugging the crap out of me! i cant stand her! she mocks me and shes mean and annoys me like she wants me to kill her! I always try to avoid her. I cant wait to move out! please tell me how I can stand the last 4 years that i have to live with her!

Answer 1

plz plz i beg of u stop. i know she can be a pain. I felt the same way. but then last year I said some relle bad things to her. and then that night she died in a car crash. I'm telling u, u need to try ur best even whens its
relle hard.

Answer 2

OMG! My mother is always asking me questions and is all in my business, she asks my daughter stuff instead of asking me because she knows my daughter will tell her the truth, the point is I'm 25 years old and she treats me like I'm 15. She opens my mail, she tells me how to raise my daughter and when i tell her that I will move out she gets all butt hurt! The best thing I do is just avoid her...... keep conversations short. If I could move out and could afford it I would until then I just avoid her.

Answer 3

this sounds like a power struggle, and you mom does not look at you as any thing but a child so may i suggest that you look very closely at the way you behave, be honest with your self. are you being respectful, responsible, caring, thoughtful,.these are all what you would expect an adult to be. A child on the other hand will have temper tantrums, I need, Want why can't I.as it is all about them. So again look at you behaviour and know what your mom is dealing with

Answer 4

i'm exactly were you are only i have one more year

well i know it's hard and eveything you do always seems to be wrong
make sure you do tell her stait forward no bullshit how she makes you feel when she does that
if you already have find things to do to keep you busy get a job (if your 16)
join sports
do community survice
stay out of the house as much as you can!!!!!!!!!!!
and when you can't hold your head high and don't take any of it to heart
thats how i made it through

(oh and i have found that when you have people at your house it tends to be better)

Answer 5

My sentiments exactly! My mother gets on my nerves all the time. We've slipped into this cycle of war and peace (2 weeks of peace followed by another two weeks of war).

I'm trying my best not to aggravate the situation because when her time is up, I'll be left on my own to resolve these unresolved issues, not her!

Answer 6

OMGAD i kno i totally understand my mom is the same exact way!!y cant she just leave me ALONE ,we like it! n i cant wait to move out eather..she swears shes perfect and always sayin how her life is a mess,well so is mine!! but she lives better than any of us..cheats on my also annoying,crazy father, and gets to leave whenever she wants..shes also mean, but i kno she loves me more than her own life..and im thankful and all but still cant she just leave me alone!always bitc** about cleanin,wanning to b my friend, my ferret smell, cant buy me a damn dog , moanin for stupid stuff like if my life is perfect!.my whole family is crazy i dun unerstand y im stuck here!!.so annoying but just lock urself in a room, listen to music,spend less time home, DO NOT GET IN TROUBLE!! the sooner u will leave! do awsome in school das the only wait ur going to get out...if u fail or get lazy das no good, u wanna leave not get stuck! and just try to ignore everything as much as possible cuz as proven tlkin to them wont do anything it will be the same crap tomorow! so yeah just wait,,, like me , im working ,doing as good as i can in school, and saving money to be out my senior year which is next year.. good luck n ur not the only one!parents are made to annoy the crap out of us!