how do you find a good man to spend your life with?

Question

Im 25 & have always been some what happy with my life after a struggle with illness i fell now that only one thing his missing in my life & thats the fact that i have never loved or been loved i long for a husband & family of my own but i fear im about to become a young bridget jones please help im rusty on the dating game so any advice would be great luv ya all x

Answer 1

Don't look for a man in a bar,Let him find you.

Answer 2

I know how you feel I'm 38 and still looking I've never been in a relationship. It seems like the only people I ever found are sluts or butt ugly girls so I quit looking. It may not be todat or tomorrow but I believe I'll meet someone when the time is right.

Answer 3

Here's how I did--in less than 3 months!

I determined what type of relationship I wanted, in very general terms (I want a fun, satisfying, fulfilling, permanent relationship).

I then determined the characteristics of the woman I wanted inside that relationship. (BTW, my wife of 6 years did the same thing on her own, too!)

I then put myself in situations where I would meet women who might meet those criterion. And, within 3 months I met my future wife, and asked her to marry me 3 months after that.

What this does is set up a filter for you. You know what you want in a relationship. You know what you desire and admire in a guy. You do activities that put you in contact with men who have similar interests. You save a LOT of time and trouble by filtering out men who don't meet your criteria.

Have fun creating the love in your life that you desire!

Answer 4

You can't rush it. The best thing to do is try things out, and don't just settle for anybody. Find the one you really love. There really is someone out there for everyone. My great uncle is 61 and just got married for the first time at age 55 and had kids. Sure, he's old, but he finally found the one, and it was worth waiting for. Good luck.

Answer 5

Just take it easy and maybe start going to evening classes or help out with school events etc, you will begin to meet people just to talk with initially, then you will realise that you are actually enjoying someones company (make sure they are single, not married), and who knows, he might be the one. Good Luck and i hope you get well quickly.

Answer 6

dont look yeah yeah i hear you say, but honest when you think of no 1 and put all you have in to you and no other you will be more honest with yourself and men will see that and love it and then you go for it baby

it may take some time to get the man you want but it will be worth it in the end

good luck baby its your time make the most of it

Answer 7

don't be sad, you sound like a nice person who has been through a lot lately,and you are still young, and at 25 you have years left to have kids,but don't try too hard, if you come on too strong it will only scare us guys away,some of us guys want the same as you.

Answer 8

Do a sport that lots of guys do and that you can also do. Be a decent and fun girl and you'll meet someone. Maybe even try Salsa dancing. Good luck.

Answer 9

Im in same situation (minus the illness part). Dont let it get you down. I believe well find each other when time is right and least expect it.

Answer 10

Dont look or you'l never find him, my dad and my male friends have told me they can spot desperation on a woman a mile off and it puts them off straight away, even if she is stunning, they stay well clear. It'll happen soon enough, your only 25 man!!!

Answer 11

Stop looking!

In 1972 I went out with my sister for a bloody good piss-up...

There was this guy there...

I've been married for 32 years!