my boyfriends ex-girlfriend is not only causing problems between us but everyone around us. She doesnt want him and I to be together and if she finds out were acutally together she wants to press charges. Since it has been so long since they have acutally been together what kind of charges can she press? It makes me upset mostly because i have to hide the fact we're together, that and he wanted me to lie and say were not together. how really should i handle this without leaving him?
2006-11-22 09:55:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have a "boyfriend" problem. He's leading her on or something. I don't think he's telling you the whole truth. I'm afraid you're being played my dear. If he wants you to lie then he's not worth being with. Go find yourself a REAL MAN. You're worth it. Don't waste your time on this nonsense. Good luck to you and God bless!
2006-11-22 09:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She cant press charges on him unless hes comitted a crime and she was the victim of that crime. Did you hear this from him or her? If hes asking you to lie and say youre not together this is probably not the real reason!!! I would be cautious because this sounds like the reason he may be trying to hide youre relationship is so that he appears single!
2006-11-22 10:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have no problem with distancing himself from the ex. Neither should it be a problem to freely admit you're a couple and together. There's nothing in criminal law with which his ex could charge either one of you. The reverse is true- criminal harassment comes to mind. If he has a problem with a clean break from his ex and a problem with the assertion that you 2 are a couple and with setting his ex straight, it's time to reevaluate this relationship. Oh, and by the way, I'm a guy.
2006-11-22 10:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by utuseclocal483 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like if he's telling you to not tell others that your together...he might still be with her and you at the same time. He's probably going to you and her for some loving. Why hide your love, let everyone know and see whats the worst that can happen. Either she's lying or he's lying, you won't find out til you let it all out!!
2006-11-22 09:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bebe760 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way someone can press charges is if you are a minor and he's over 18, so if you are seeing an older guy calm your young *** down your pops wouldn't like it
2006-11-22 10:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Great one 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl is not an ex-girlfriend, stop seeing this guy they both sound like trouble don't get in the middle of this, if you are seeing someone and you have to hide it is either they are married or already seeing someone.
2006-11-22 10:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
press charges on what?? ha ha someone cant call the cops for dating another person tell her to ***** off and u should call the cops on her if anything and say she's harrasing you 2, get a restraining order on her
2006-11-22 09:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
k you sound adorable and you should not let this stupid girl run your life for you! honestly if you havent done a single thing to her thats illegal, then she cannot press charges! she may just be sayin that to scare you off! but dont fall for it! dont hide your relationship if he means so much to you but if he is not helping this situation and actually making it harder then DROP HIM. tell this girl to back off so you can continue to live your life as normally and happily as possible!
2006-11-22 09:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by XoXo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she cannot press charges nad if she does anything harming u press the charges.
2006-11-22 09:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by katie D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its more likely that he doesn't want her to find out for some other reason.
2006-11-22 09:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋