i really like this guy... we are friends and i like him a lot! he asked my one of my bestfriends to formal cause she is like super pretty and stuff... but she was like the worst date ever... and she ditched him and made out with some other guy... so i danced with him a lot and had a good time w/ him... he doesn't know about her making out... first should i tell him...? but i don't wanna loose my friend... and i think he still likes her even though she was a horrible date... i like hiim sooo much and can't stop thinking about hiim.... what do i do... ?!
2006-11-22 09:53:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your feelings! If you like this guy that much, then doesn't he deserve to know that there's someone out there that's interested in him? If your friend ran off with some other guy at a formal, then he's fair game!
2006-11-22 09:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Alendaris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The funny thing is your story is mine my best friend was with this guy who I became friends with as well. She ended up cheating on him with her ex. I felt so bad cause he liked her alot. It took me 6 months to tell him and I did. I felt bad for my friend but was sick of being caught in the middle. Eventually she moved away and I made my move this was in 1993 and we are still together and married. Just have to do what you feel, and remember that ya some feelings are going to be hurt no matter what.
2006-11-22 10:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by robin b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him about your friend's dirt. That's what we call "hatin." But do tell him that you are into him, and that he'd never have to worry about you being a bad date. Before you do ANYTHING, make sure your friend doesn't like him. Even though she treated him like crap, she still has first dibbs on him and probably wouldn't appreciate you pushing up on a guy she dated first.
2006-11-22 09:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Just gorgeous dahling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know? A hidden cause of your friendship with him as a dance partner check it out in your mind and soul.If you really like him-what are you waiting for? Just talk to him...you went to buy a milk and hiding your purse loaded with money.
2006-11-22 10:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on who you like more him or your friend.But she's your friend and has probably been there longer than him,but she is wrong for doing that also.But remember never pick a boy over your friends cuz your friends are always there for you and wats gonna happen when he leaves you you'll have nobody to turn to.so think about it.Your friend that will alwayz be there 4 you or a boy who could leave whenever he wants.
2006-11-22 10:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by *-ASHlEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think thats for him to find out if he finds out then it will be between them not all three and if he is not going out with any one it's ok for the gal o ask out the guy if he says no then don't be all hard on your self he will figer out you like him nad he will probly go out with you good lucks give it till about faebuary or mrach of 2007
2006-11-22 09:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your feelings for him be honest.
obviously ur friend didnt like him so she wouldn't mind.
if he still got a soft spot 4 her then give him time he get over her, just say she not intrested in u just some people click some people dont. she wouldn't treated him like they way she did if she liked him.
just be honest wif him.
2006-11-22 09:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is your real friend - him or her? What is more important to you - trying to date him or staying friends with your friend? If you don't need her as a friend, then by all means, be honest to yourself and go for it with him.
2006-11-22 09:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by tomclark001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if you tattle it back fires, so just be his friend, and try asking him out sometime.
2006-11-22 09:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ask me, your friend isnt interested. go and make your move and dont think about your friend, you hav needs too rite? and well im not sure if you shud tell him about what ur friend did... but kinda subtly try to make him know... u kno wat i mean?.... hope i helped. i tried.
2006-11-22 09:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by BeautyBunny<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋