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A guy i went out with said i was wierd what does this mean besides the obvious?
this guy asked me out for a bit we went out i was going through a real hard time at work and probably acted a little strange he said i was wierd and left it at that. I sent him a text saying sorry for all the strange things that happened and he texted me back saying not to worry and that he was glad i could laugh at it with a mate and at the end put take care. Does this mean he still fancies me or he has forgiven me...should i text him back what should i put so he still likes and respects me...pleaase help i want him back he waas sooo the right guy just at the wrong time
2006-11-22 09:49:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sentence at the last should be part of your next message ... "I think you're the right guy, but it was just the wrong time." Let him know you had a bad day at work and that's why you were acting maybe what he'd call weird, and you'd like sometime to give the date a do-over if he wants to see a different/better side of you. Good luck.
2006-11-22 09:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by David W 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-04 06:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is NOTHING to forgive. You were honest with this guy and told him what was going on in your life. He could not handle it and the problem was HIS, not yours.
Please stand up for yourself. His text message is non-committal. You have nothing to apologize for.
You don't really know if the is the right person for you because you only had one short date. It takes a little time to know something like that.
Mainly, BELIEVE in yourself and love yourself. When a man sees that a woman is secure in loving herself, then he unconsciously (or consciously) sees someone who is capable of love.
So, please practice on that part of yourself and love yourself even more.
I think you have been meeting the wrong guys. A good man will be interested in you and ask you about yourself. When you are out with a guy who does nothing but talk about himself, then that means he is self-absorbed, self-centered and most likely selfish.
Good luck to you in finding someone to love. It is going to happen, I promise you.
2006-11-22 10:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Paulo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy then you should talk to him face to face. It makes no sense to just hide all of this and then you are feeling really stupid because you lost the one thing that matters the most to you. You guys should really talk about whats going on between you both. Clearing the air gives each a better understanding of things and your future with him. don't lose a good guy! Text him back real talk. Good luck!
2006-11-22 09:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Li-Li 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things... learn to spell - WEIRD - and look for another guy. If you ask too many questions it is not right. When the right guy comes along you WILL know. There is someone out there for you. You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find Prince Charming!
2006-11-22 09:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by elaine g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When somebody says you're weird it either means that you where creepy, or that you where funny in a weird way. It all depends on how he said it. If he was like "You're weird....." and tried to avoid you that means that you where creepy weird, and may not like you. If he was like "You're weird! hahaha" that means he thought you where funny, and still might like you. Just text him back saying you had a nice time, and you would want to go out again.
2006-11-22 10:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being weird is nothing to be ashamed about and there is no need to apologize. heck look at all the normal people out there, they're the scary ones.
when i say somebody is weird i mean it as a compliment. it's our little faults and oddities that make us unique. dig far enough into anybody's life and you'll find they're a little weird.
I'd say he still fancies you.
2006-11-22 09:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Flint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may over it and stuff but even stilll don't blow up his phone with a lot of messages because he may still be a little on the other side. But even more just be yourself and don't change just for him. Take care
2006-11-22 09:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by lirod2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing the guy is kinda moody. so i think you better get you time off and see if he is interested. work pressure got u hard. and he understands that, i think. so let him make his move. im a boy and when girl makes a move i feel err..weird lol. and that guy sure wants to talk control lol thats for sure.
2006-11-22 09:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by Saroj B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry because if he is the right guy, if he truly is the one, then no matter what he will come back to you eventually. Be yourself, if you are weird then be weird, eventually you will find someone to appreciate you for who you are.
2006-11-22 09:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋