can u relate to this?

Question

i don't really have a family.
i have friends but i don't really see them because they all busy and same live far away.
i learn be just be by myself alot and i am use to it now.
still some time i want to belong in a family.
my mother said that i was a mistake and all the bad stuff that a parent shouldn't tell to a child.
i used in a positive way, i am in college doing what i wan to.
i go to movies myself, i everything myself.
some time i talk to my friend on phone and i feel that it good to keep them around even do i am not with them physically.

i am not bad or anything i just wanted to know if there are people out there who can relate to my story
and how u survive








it not like i am sad or anything

Answer 1

you are not alone. My mom does not tell me I was a mistake, however, she acts like it all the time. My younger sister is the princess and I am the black sheep. I don't have too many friends either, I had my kids way too young, so most of my life just spent raising them, their father left when they were small. I went to college, but could not afford 4yrs, and did not have time or money for the babysitter so I couldn't get my B.S. or B.A.
Now, I'm working part time, no one wants someone with A.S. degree, unless you have friends in high places. Just get your education, 4yrs, get a good job and live your life to the fullest, forget people that bring you grief even if you're related to them, otherwise you will always be unhappy.
Good luck.

Answer 2

I can totally relate to you, I have lived on my own since 1990. I do have a few friends That accept the fact that I am not going to be on their doorstep constantly, I have a few family around me and while they are important they understand tha if an opportunity came by for them not to consider me in the equation. So yes I live on my own , it is by my choice, I have no desire to change it, and I would call myself a happy well rounded person thank you

Answer 3

I have a wonderful daughter in law lwho use to be like you are now, we are her family now and I am so glad my son found her. we love her to pieces. find a really good guy who loves his mom and family and they will love you as their own. be patient.