Ignore them. Let him/her wake up and realize that you are not the kind of man/woman that puts up with that kind of behavior. If you do put up with it it will just continoue and you will end up unhappy and divorced if you ever even get married.
If you just play games all the time, then that's what your relationship if any will always be, a game.
Putting up with it just tells the person that you don't think you have options so you will chase them. Instead you need to back off and wait for them to come to you and make it up to you.
By doing this you convey to them subjectively that you don't need them or their behavior, and that if they want to be with you they will need to cut the crap, take the chance, and be honest and upfront with you.
Am I right or am I right?
2006-11-22 09:06:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you there is never a need to play games, unless it is with the knowledge of both partners, other wise it is exactly as you believe, good thought and idea
2006-11-22 09:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right to a certain extent. When I hear the term "playing hard to get" i think sex. I think a girl shouldn't put out right away because then she is easy, and where's the mystery? the romance? all that good stuff that a long lasting relationship needs? Playing hard to get as in getting a phone number, or a date, then yeah, by all means, stop playing games.
2006-11-22 17:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by peace318sb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, completely right.
There's a guy in my dorm that has been following my roommate like a lost puppy. Maybe if he wasn't as available as our doormat she might actually be interested. To everyone out there who is loving some one to hard. Let 'em go and you might have a chance keep holding on and you can f'get about it.
2006-11-22 17:12:45 · answer #3 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Forget and forgive.
2006-11-22 17:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Everyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are most definately right........
thanks for the advice
2006-11-22 17:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by tsb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but it sure sounds good to me.
2006-11-22 17:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are soo Right! :)
2006-11-22 17:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by ahuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YuP YuP Yup .... You are soo right !!!
2006-11-22 17:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Naty 34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋