Why is the man of my dreams always taken?

Question

This is not fair!!! The only person i like is always going out with someone. It seems clear that he likes me a little but im not sure. he seems such a player sometimes!!! He just broke up with my best friend, and now he is going out with another preppy girl when he is clearly looking at me!!! What do i do???????

Answer 1

Im in this position also.... He keeps asking me to hook him up with someone when really i think he likes me. Desperate times calls for deperate measures! Flirt! This is all we can do girl! And if the man of our dreams does like us he'll flirt too, and dump that nasty prep!

God bless!

Answer 2

There is a syndrome where women are attracted to unavailable men out of a subconscious protection of committing to a relationship. Do a reality check and find out what you really want at this time in your life from a man. If you have been hurt by a man in the past or had a bad relationship with your father, it could be that part of you that is trying to protect you until you heal emotionally.

Answer 3

You are idealizing him in a narrow environment. If you saw him at home, stumbling around leaving towels on the floor, he would seem much more "human". There are other guys who have those attributes you listed. Your job is to look around your classes and find a single guy, a classmate, who seems to be going in the direction you are looking for. They really are not all taken, although I know it seems that way. Your mistake is getting stuck on an older guy; the older they are, the more chance there is that they are already married. Please don't take your crush anywhere with your prof. The guy is married with a kid.

Answer 4

The man of your dreams is a player! And that's what you call the "man of your dreams?" He's playing with your mind...ignore him and his wicked games that's the only way you'll win. Plus, if he really liked you then why'd he go out with someone ELSE even after he broke up with his girlfriend? Hello, think about it...actions speak louder than words.

Answer 5

Even if he weren't taken and you two did date, how long do you think it would last? He is on a mission to date all the girls in school and you will get your turn eventually. Just be patient and wait for your 2 month romance before he dumps you and moves on.

Answer 6

If there are many girls interested in a guy, the guy will never treat you with any respect, because he has no reason to because he can always get another girl, so don´t waste your time,

Find a guy that is interested in YOU, IF this guy was REALLY interested in you, he would not be wasting time with these other girls

Answer 7

because you are wanting what you can't have, some people call it cat string theory. let's say you are playing with a cat , you have a piece of yarn and you're dangling it in front of the cats face. the cat is fighting it's little heart away trying to get it but now you drop it in front of him and the cat will quickly lose interest. we all want what we can't have and when we get it many times we lose interest instantly just as the cat does

Answer 8

Why would an obvious player like you want a relationship with another player?

Answer 9

Sooo, how can you call him the "man of your dreams" when you really don't know him that well?
You think you want someone who will jump around from girl to girl like that? Or someone who is going with one person and looking at another?
He may be looking at you, he may not be. It may just be what you want influencing you.
What you do is.............nothing, with him. Find someone who will be devoted to you, and who you can devote yourself to.

Answer 10

Just forget him sister. If he did try you out hed probably just dump you later on anyway. (Same thing happened to me except by a girl). Now ive just tried to move on and wait for somebody else to come along.