okay, I am in the 8th grade ( H.S ) i have this awsome girlfriend. we have been going out for 3 weeks. We made-out and stuffs like that. But today fer some reason, she just broke up with me for no reason. This morning, i bought her a vanilla latae. And like everyday, i kept making her laugh at jokes i made. I treat her like a princess. But i dont kno why she broke up with me. i am fine that she broke up with me. But can someone give me advice what to say to her to get the answer. PLEASE HELP!!!
2006-11-22 09:00:08 · 18 answers · asked by jOe RuLeS!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to sound mean but maybe you were moving too fast. Also, something might have happened in her family or in her personal life. Try to be extra nice to her even though she broke up with you, because then she might explain why she did what she did or maybe you can just stay friends and if all else fails just smile and wave whenever its possible. Good Luck!
2006-11-22 10:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her about a week or so before you start asking her questions.. and the best way to ask is just to be straight up an honest. Let her know that you respect her desicion but you just want to know what happend. In all honesty, when I was in the 7th grade I had a boyfriend in the 8th grade and after one month i dumped him, I don't really remember why though, I don't think there really was a reason for me breaking up with him. But we stayed friends till we graduated high school and went our separate ways.
2006-11-22 09:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by peace318sb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably met someone else and liked him more than she did you or she wasn't really into you. Maybe she didn't like to be treated like a princess.But to know the truth just ask her directly.Tell her how you feel and why she did it, but make sure to look her straight in the eye and act serious.
2006-11-22 09:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Chicana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask her bluntly. The worst that could happen is that she could just not answer, which wouldn't put you any worse off because you already don't know why. If you beat around the bush with the question, she might beat around the bush with the answer, and you won't get the answer that you want, or you'll get one you might not understand. So I would just ask. Keep it simple
2006-11-22 09:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymously Yours 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well- soudns like she's using you and she may have more fun with you than a BF would. Don't talk to her anymore- by hangin out with her- you're making it seem like you;re ok with it or you're over it. Just ask her why she doesn't want to be with you. IF the truth doens;t seem to make sence-- ask a friend of hers to see what she says and there you go- problem solved
2006-11-22 09:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just talk to her and ask her why she broke up with u and if u did anything wrong !!!
HoPe I HeLpEd A LiTtLe :0)
2006-11-22 09:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Naty 34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you lover her? if yes, i am pretty sure you know the reason cauz no one like to waste their time unless she only like to have fun not serious relationship.
If she doesnt' answer you, dont force her if she loved you she will come back if she is for you
good luck
2006-11-22 09:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably woke up one and day and realized, "holy ****, i'm in a committed relationship!" and got scard. She's in the 8th grade...so are you, ask her what happened for kicks but just move on she's immature.
2006-11-22 09:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why say anything? actions speak louder than words, the best revenge is a life well lived, have fun buy one of her friends a coffee lol.
2006-11-22 09:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your fine with the break up but why did she give no reason behind it.
2006-11-22 09:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋