First of all I'm not complaining or being depressed but has anyone ever had this happen to them, in the space of a month I have
-Got a new job and had to leave my old job of 4 years
-Lost one of my best friends because of stupid FWB relationship
-Had to move back home because my housemate wanted to and I couldn't afford anything at that point
I now feel like I don't know what to do or who the hell I am anymore. I had tons of friends in my old job aswell as my FWB person being though who I really cared for and lost and now my independence has been taken away and i'm stuck at home again! I don't know what my morals are or hobbies feel totally and utterly lost
However I have recently joined a gym, bought my first car and joined a dating agency but still not sure if this really me....I'm 24
2006-11-22 08:56:13 · 8 answers · asked by jljfl o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's a mid-life crisis...just a little early. These things happen to everyone so maybe your's is just happening a little early. Keep working, maybe find a special someone, and hang out with your friends. Make it the good life...even if you are living at home...for now, right?
2006-11-22 08:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Emirii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a transition. Everyone has a point in their life when they have to fall down...hard and learn how to get back up. It's a good time to re-evaluate somethings in your life and figure out how you got to this point so you know what not to do next time. Think of it as a renewal. You'll find your way, and after everything is all said and done, I assure you, you will be a better person for it.
2006-11-22 09:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad- others have horrible lives, too. I am having to live with my abusive grandmother,who is also my representative payee. But I'm working on changing that. I SHOULD have a job TODAY, with which I am going to move out from under my grandma's tyranny within a week. If you really need a friend to talk to, I'm here for ya. Kevin B. im1friend@yahoo.com
2006-11-22 09:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question guy.
OK, so you have a few things going on all at once. You will get through it. You should spend some time figuring out what your lifetime goals are. Make a list of them. Think about them everyday and try to do something each day that moves you closer to your top goal. Good luck.
2006-11-22 09:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
souds to me like you need to find a really good hobby you are interested in for me it was 3d modeling that got me thinking about life again if your interested in it as a hobby to take your mind off things try these sites. www.3dkingdom.org
http://studio766.com/phpbb2/index.php its just started up but the guys there can help you get started on the long journey you will embark
2006-11-22 09:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by crstom185 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find Jesus. He's just waiting for you to reach out to Him. He can make you feel right again. Good luck and God bless!
2006-11-22 09:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your confused - that is what it means
Man what people do on these sites
This is not a realtionship question it's a psyco question
2006-11-22 08:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL you need is spiritual FOOD... Go out and know the real purpose in life by knowing GOD... ok bro?
2006-11-22 09:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by RAMRAP 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋