Am I just too available for him, move on or play hard to get?

Question

I've been seeing this guy since August we go out off and on, we are not exclusive or anything like that, we have been intimate and Im starting to really like him. I really haven't been pushing the bf/gf issue bc he is 22 and Im 26....and I honestly don't know how he feels about me. Im almost sure his friends have a huge influence on his social life, so when I invite him places wether it be with just me or with my friends he tends to decline so lately I've just been waiting around for him to ask me out and I like him so much that whenever he calls to ask me out I always almost say yes. Im tired of this, I don't want to scare him off by telling him how I feel...but then again Im tired of waiting around to see him...he's always saying he misses me and blah blah blah...but Im just starting to wonder if I'm just making myself too available for him? What do you think? What should I do?

Answer 1

If you like him you should talk to him so you know you are moving somewhere in this relationship..if not you are just waisting your time..if he is scared or whatever then let it go and find someone that cares about you and go out with you and your friends.

Answer 2

I'm in the middle of the reverse situation (w/ a girl).

personally what i think i'm going to do is to ask her out once more and start distancing myself from her emotionally (if she says yes and we go out, i will undo that distance, if she says no, i won't be hurt bad) and will move on if she refuses.

idk if that will actually happen in such an ideal manner though

Answer 3

I think you should allow me to help relieve the stress on your mind.

Answer 4

start by playing harder to get, don't call him let him call you and then don't always answer the first time.

Answer 5

move on...........too late to play it hard