How do you tell ur ex boyfriend u love him...???

Question

even tho u havnt been with him for 9 months!!

Answer 1

Easy. I.love.you. But don't expect a good reaction considering he's your ex.

Answer 2

I think it has a lot to do with how much contact you have with each other now. If you end up doing lots together and enjoying moments then with time, he will feel comfortable around you. You can throw hints about how things would be different if you got back together.

Also, you could ask him if he ever thinks about the two of you together again. Get him to remember the good times of the past and then when you do talk about your feelings, he might warm to the idea!

Even if it has been 9 months, it is important to have had time apart. I think many couples are unhappily together and may just need some time apart to think and realise how wonderful a relationship they have. That time apart will help make you both appreciate what you want if you are together again. He honest with him and regain as much trust as possible through a solid friendship before you throw in taking further steps!

Answer 3

first find out if he has a new GF if he does- don't do it just take it and live with it and move on. FI he's still single- don't tell him yet- set up a date like coffee in the morning or something and find out what he thinks of you or what he's been up to and if you've been on his mind. Don't spill the beans on him unless he tells you or insinuates that he's missed you or loves you still. Be strong. If he won't agree to meet with you- that means he's moved on or isn't interested in you at least not like a friend or anything, Try this and see how it goes. Good luck my friend-

PS- if you tell him straight out that you still love him and miss him a lot you're going for the kill- he may laugh or turn you down if he doens't feel the same. Guys are good at this- they know they have the power to be with you or not when you tell them you love them- it's like they use it against us women and think they can command us & stuff

Answer 4

u have to ask him to come with u to a quite place and tell him how u feel and be like even tho we havent been together 4 9 months and u may not like me anymore i just have to tell u something...i love u and i cant help it but i was wondering if u feel the same back....u no say something like that

Answer 5

Like this... " u know it is good for two to be separated for some time , coz it really tells if u still love on the person or not..like me . i realized for 9 months that i still love u..it's up to u if u feel the same way too for me.." OK ?

Answer 6

Keeping trying to talk to him and get back with him. Find out where he lives, get your best friend and a hott dude to help you, put his girlfriend in the closet tied up with a knife, put your ex in the trunk of the car, retie his girlfriend to a pole or the bed and leave her there with the hott guy. Take him back to your house and tie him either in your closet or to your bed and tell him he is yours and you will never let him go. This is how to tell your ex you love him. p.s. its not called stalking its called love!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Are you just lonely at the moment? He is your ex. Remember why you broke up then thing before your act on it. Good Luck.

Answer 8

i would sit down and talk to him and tell him straight up. he might feel the same way.i have your same problem. don't listen to the people who say forget about him hes your ex. they just don't know what love is like. if you truly love someone you won't give up on him. good luck.

Answer 9

You don't. After that time you need to move on. You will find someone who you deserve. If it has been that long then chances are you are going to get your heart broken again when he turns you down.

Answer 10

it's probably not love. You're just "in love" with the idea of him. Look around you, you may be missing out on someone even better.