a quest. for romantic people only?

Question

i've finally come around. i don't think i'm meant to be happy in love (just my fate) & will most likely remain single. so what I do is, I engage in whatever gives me that romantic allure; going for a walk, reading a love novel, seeing a movie, learning a new language, attempting to paint/draw/write...I do miss passion but I try to help myself in any way I can, :)

how do you find this...I believe in destiny & there is only so much you can do...i feel great during the day but when the night falls...

thanx...

ps) Pl. don't write about what has nothing to do with romance & passion (work, career, hobbies, friends - that's a different world). I'd like to hear from someone who understands, that's why I said...

Answer 1

Don't assume that you're incapable of having a loving relationship just because you haven't experienced it yet. Love has a way of tapping you on the shoulder when you're looking the other way. Don't try so hard. Just enjoy your life, as you're doing. Finding another person to love isn't everything. If it happens, it will come naturally. Be open, but don't force it.

Answer 2

Congratulations...you have reached the level of self confidence. Independence. Do not let lonely nights frustrate you. It may not be worth what you feel is the ideal relationship. Take it from me, I am happier and calmer since my wife cheated and skipped town. No anger, I wasn't bad. Just, according to Paul(?) those who wish to be married choose the harder life... But, if you feel you will be better off with a mate, ask God...pray...if you find someone, get to know them socially, first. 6 months.....If they like you, they will stay that long....

Answer 3

You feel this way now but you will feel differently when the love of your desires walks up to you.
What you are doing is a good thing. you are keeping your mind occupied and not dwelling into things you don't have right now.
Night time is always the saddest and loneliest times.
Keep your mind and thoughts open for true love. never close them of it..

Answer 4

I am single by choice.My past relationship have been fickle on my behalf,even though i have been loved i found it hard to return the feeling.So i have resorted to the fact that i hope to find someone to help me grow within my faith or may be i am destined to be single,I have realized it is better to belong to one rather than to be loved by many.

Answer 5

can empathize with you. after the wife died 7 years ago started dating again and all the girl wanted was money. so am bitter and disillusioned. however, there may be someone yet who will see the
" real " me. believe me I understand totally and wish you well and hope that " someday your knight in shining armor will rescue you. "

Answer 6

days are always fine .. we can fill them with many things
but nights are sad when we are alone ..
and it is for that reason you shouldnt give up on love ... no one deserves to be alone
and i believe that there is someone out there for everyone
and with such passion and love that you so obviously have ... it would be a shame not to give that to someone

please dont give up .... i nearly did once .. now i am married and so in love xx

Answer 7

But when the night falls....it seems like forever till morning comes once again.....

Answer 8

I understand what you are sayin'. I think you are trying to give yourself the feelings a girl can give you?. I think that is awesome that you are doin that. but for me it would be hard for me to give myself the feeling a girl can give. Especially when you find that one special girl. that feeling is hard to beat.

Answer 9

Allow Love and Romance to find you ,,

Answer 10

Ah, you're going for the "mysterious, lonely, and deadly" kind of approach, aren't you?