he tells me he loves me and all but i dont know. he has a few girls that r friends. some of them has been his friend since like the 3rd grade. he is great. i love him but i dont like that he has girls that are friends. he said he will break all friendships 4 me and he has but that makes me feel bad. idk
2006-11-22 08:38:12 · 11 answers · asked by *~krazi~* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly if this is the only reason you want to break up with your boyfriend, you might be the one who has to work through some issues. What makes you so insecure around these people? Do you think he will cheat on you? Do you think you could possibly become friends with them as well? If you don't think you can handle your boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex, you might want to end the relationship. However if you truly love him and you trust he won't cheat on you with these friends, you need to get past the insecurities. Best of luck to you.
2006-11-22 08:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, to brake up with him after he broke off a long time of friendships is just wrong! but him having female friends is something that u have to deal with. its not like hes putting them before u or something he loves u so he wouldnt hurt u. trust me i understand exactly how u feel i know it feels awkward to know that your boyfriend has other female friends but u got to think of it like this i am the one hes kissing everynight, i am the one he tells that he loves, and i am the one who is in this relationship and its going good not his friends.
2006-11-22 16:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think about this do you have guys friends? well if you do you should let him have him female friends bcuz if he wanted to make a move on them he would of done that a long time ago so dont worry about it and dont break up with him for something like that
2006-11-22 16:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Aly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not break up with him. It is your hang up not his. Why are you so jealous...you know you have value too , or else he would not be with you!!!! If you keep behaving in a jealous way he may break up with you because you are too "high maintenance". remember, he is friends with them and he is YOUR boyfriend. Besides , if you can't try to be nice ti his friends you will make it too uncomfortable to be with you.
2006-11-22 16:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forcing him to break friendships doesn't say anything good about you. that is the mark of insecurity, and will not help your relationship at all. you have to get over it.
2006-11-22 16:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...no offense..but ur kinda over-reacting...if a guy has friends that are girls its gonna be ok...if he rly loved you he wouldn't cheat on u with them. i know u may be feeeling a little jealous...i felt the same way about my guy....but he's a guy u can't expect him to just have one girlfriend and thats all...i'd keep him-but if he cheats on u...thats a different story....
2006-11-22 16:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by lindseyy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your very selfish and petty to say he cant have girls as friends...grow up!
2006-11-22 16:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is willing to break up all his friendships for you, thats really dumb... it means that people arnet worth anything to him. tehre are other guys out hter.
2006-11-22 16:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have confidence enough to know that he wants only you - you will always have this problem
2006-11-22 16:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dezie: if you break up with him, go out with me.
ill never let you down, girl. NEVA!
2006-11-22 16:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by hot_rich_gorgeous_single_guy 07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋