my bf and i were going a bit too fast, so we stopped having sex for awhile. it was his idea...i asked him if it was because the sex wasn't good or if he had any other reason and he said 'no, the sex was great...the relationship is just moving too fast.' so we are taking a break.
i asked him on the phone if he thought that i was a sl*t because i slept with him so fast (we have known each other for yeeears, but just got back in contact and we had sex the first time we saw each other in about 7 years). he said sarcastically "oh yes, you dirty wh*re." i said "no seriously.." he said 'no, i don't think you are a sl*t."
then i asked him if he missed sex. he said 'not really.' i said 'seriously?' he said 'no..'
i said 'when you say you don't miss it, and could careless you make me feel like a sl*t.' he said 'you're not, stop thinking that. i already told you its not that..'
anyone have an thoughts as to what could be up?
2006-11-22 08:34:25 · 10 answers · asked by lickablecake123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he really likes you but wants to slow it down because he has been down that road before and got bad results so he thinks if he do something different then he will get good results and you all will be together for a long time.
2006-11-22 08:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably had second thoughts after y'all got together and he 'might' want to be with you, but he definitely wants to take some time to figure out how he feels about you; sex complicates things for guys, too. If you're just looking for an fb, then he's probably not up for that right now; now you need to figure out if what you want and he wants are the same thing.
Word of advice...if his sex drive is low now, it'll be really low later in life, so keep that in mind.
2006-11-22 23:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by bongfuel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I'd be concerned about is if he knew the username you're using here.
Things like that put a damper on bf-gf relationships real quick.
2006-11-22 16:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy probably was horny and slept with you but when reality struck he realised he doesn't like you in that way but doesn't want to hurt you?
Just a guess
2006-11-22 16:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by mike Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just come over to my place and put everything else out your mind but me you and this turkey dinner i'm cooking.
2006-11-22 16:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by J D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably has a medical problem or an STD that he doesn't wanna give you
2006-11-22 16:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want a serious relationship.
2006-11-22 16:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, he probably doesn't injoy it or is lying to you or
he loves you and wants to pro tect you !!
2006-11-22 16:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has a medical problem, and cant for a while
2006-11-22 16:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-22 16:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by tom s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋